What would I do IF I were to be President?

New Presidential Candidate… If you dont want either of the ones that are running..!

 

Hi,

There’s an effort to elect an unknown random person as President…so I agreed to be their candiate !

 What I would do IF I were president ?~ Well let me tell you~ Here are just some of the things off the top of my head that I would like to see happen and would work hard for.. I have alot of other ideas as well~

But to get started this is what I would do IF I were president….

 Just like in the old days when politicians would promise a chicken in every pot, so I can promise a chicken in every pot [with the help of the USDA Food Stamp Program]

Cheaper gas prices [following Sarah Palin's approach to taxing oil companies]End the war in Iraq not by pulling out, but by taking over unconditionally and if need be , imperialistically for at least one generation [like England in India] and earnestly go wiping out any known or  suspected terrorist camps worldwide]

Impose a trade Tax on countries we are outsourcing American jobs to.

Increase military strength and not succumb to world pressures in telling us how to administer our foreign policies.

Compel nations relying on our foreign aid to join ‘our union’ in order to receive funding from us, they should be one with us, instead of using our money while continuing to hate or malign US.

Cut federal spending on executive jobs, eliminate waste in government spending by reducing administrative costs of agency operations~ If they want funding, more than 70% has to go for the actual purpose that it was intended, rather than red tape.

Make term limits on ALL government positions in Senate,Congress, eliminating their inflated expense accounts and pensions.

Make Government for the people, as a public service and trust rather than for power and lifetime of benefits.

Increase spending on education with a job placement payback service for all student loans, thus eliminating loan default~ Let them work it off!!

Make a new Civilian Conservation Corps to rebuild the infrastructure of the country, thus providing jobs to all who are unemployed  but able bodied.

Overturn Roe V Wade and re-educate America on the sanctity of life. Provide counselling and funding that would make our children the prize possession of America and educate them with discipline and pride so that the next generation will not be a bunch of self indulgent couch potatoes~

Bring ‘God’ back into the courts and place criminal sentences and fines on all who use government or religion for their own selfish gain,by re-evaluating tax exempt status annually of all who apply for non-profit status.

Place limits on administrative salaries in order to qualify for tax exempt status {why should any group pay its administrators $100,000+ a year while soliciting donations and tax exemption credits to provide their services?

Bring back honor, integrity and a sense of civil duty to all walks of life.

Reform prisons by making them into factories to make products currently being made by outsourcing.Our prison system should be able to compete with the foreign markets!Funds earned can go for prison reform and salaries.Then when the inmate is released, he/she will have a skill to be able to work and make an honest living rather than having to  go on welfare.

Provide work for  welfare recipients work from home such as telemarketers and other computer data  jobs that they can be easily trained for if they can not be part of the new Civilian Conservation Corps.

Test and evaluate all students to see what jobs would meet their potential.Enforce the policy of no one left behind and make everyone who is capable, able to meet the work that will allow them to produce and make themselves and their families self sufficient.

Require everyone to register for the draft and commit 2 years minimun to civil service and national defense. Make overseas duty voluntary however.

 

Watch my online video about this surprising new turn of events:

  http://www.tsgnet.com/pres.php?id=370617&altf=Bwf&altl=Ivsmfz  

Jot back a note to let me know what you think!

 

And IF I dont achieve enough backing to be elected this time, I want you to know that I endorse John Mc Cain and Sarah Palin for the presidency in Nov 2008 as the next best thing and totally am against Obama as not being fit to be president of our United States and if elected, believe America would fall an become a third world nation.

Too late to try to SAVE AMERICA  not enough Voted for McCain/Palin ~~~!!

2 FLEA DROPS almost killed my cat~

 It’s flea and tick season, again.

My dogs already got fleas and brought some into the house. 2 of my son’s cats also got out and caught some. Last but not least MY cat, who has never been outside, got some too~

My cat , who never goes out, caught the fleas despite her relatively new flea collar and was itching terribly to get them off and spreading them as she went from room to room.

I found her on top of my bed and saw 3-4 fleas hop off so I caught and killed them immediately.It was the 30th, so I had one more day to wait for my check so  to buy her another flea collar.

Last  month I picked up a single dose tube of Sargents Flea drops at a discount store in Big Flats NY to try on my cats, but had just put flea collars on each of them, so didnt use the drops right away. 

I also have a 3 pack at home of Hartz for the dogs, but my son said he didnt want to use them as his vet had some sort of pill he wanted to get for his pups & dogs as we have 7 and I planned on treating them all at the same time.

Now we will never use any flea drops ever again. They are not safe!

 They can and do kill pets~they aren’t just repellents, they are poison!

They enter the fur and go into the sebaceous glands of the animal and that is how they get rid of the fleas but they also affect the animal’s central nervous system! Any animal can have a reaction at any time too .

So even if you used it before and didnt notice any harm, doesnt mean it isnt having an accumulative effect on your pet and the very next dose used could be the lethal one~!

Meanwhile at the time I didn’t know how devastating Flea drops and other Flea products are . I was under the impression that the same medicine[which I now know is a poison] worked the same for cats and dogs as they get the same fleas.

I thought the medicine was only toxic to the bugs and not the pets!

I thought they were sold based on size of the animal, so that smaller doses were for cats and puppies and larger doses were for dogs. I believed that was the only difference.I didnt know that some dog doses even have something different in them that the dog’s liver is supposed to be able to process but that the cat’s liver can not process. Sop why sell toxic pet products?? I later learned about this at the Vet’s when it was already too late!

So, on that night, I then had this single dose tube for the cats,  but since we have 3 cats,initially I was waiting to get more of the drops to treat them with at the same time, since their flea collars weren’t as effective as they should have been as they each were scratching with fleas~

 Two of my son’s  cats had recently gotten outside and so they too, were  bringing in fleas, even though they had on relatively new flea collars! That was why I was going to try  the flea drops.

My cat however was  never outside, but between the traffic of the puppies being taken out for ‘walks’ and the other two cats having gotten out, my little cat wasnt immune and her collar obviously wasnt working either.

She was scratching nonstop and over the last few weeks was  losing fur down on her back by her tail. Her coat had lost its luster. I told my son that I was going to make an appt to get her  neutered this month so she too could start going out like the others.

I thought her sudden hair loss was from some displacement activity as she goes into ‘heat’ so often which was why I didnt let her out either as I didnt want her to get pregnant.

It didnt occur to me that the hair loss was from from the flea collar that  I put on her just  over a month ago and yet there were fleas on her anyway so what good was that collar doing?

I then decided to divide the tube  up over the 3 cats and would get more in the morning.  The other 2 cats each got a few drops each as they were the ones going out the most.

Then I squeezed the last 2 drops of the open flea drop tube medication  and  put them on my cat’s neck, thinking it couldn’t hurt using so little and hoping it would  bring her some relief for just the night. 

3 hours later she was writhing in pain seizing and convulsing,
foaming at the mouth! I went to pick her up, she bolted and ran into
things crashing her body all over the house and ran into the
bathroom. My son  caught her and we placed her into a cage and began calling vets in our area.

Our regular vet was out of town and it was night.

Another Vet called back and arranged for his Vet tech to meet us at his office and she began the treatment to try to and save my poor little cat. She cut off the flea collar and said she was going to give her a bath to remove residue of the flea drops. I  gave her the empty tube in case she needed it for determining what antidote to give.

 She said she was going to put an IV in her and give her  a variety of meds to stop the seizures and keep her  from dehydrating and then some sedatives if needed and whatever else the Vet determined as necessary. We left and went home worried as she looked like she was going to die.

She remained in the animal hospital 2 days on the  IV and then came home and will recover. We are lucky since many pets die .Many owners don’t even know that these flea products can do what happened to her. My son said she looked like she had rabies with all the convulsing and foaming at the mouth~

 The Vet  bill however was $485 payable immediately with no payment plan available! We were very grateful that they saved her ,but unprepared for such a large bill.

These poisons used in pet care products should be illegal.

Since they are sold over the counter everywhere, Hartz and Sargents are well  known brands,  many  people assume they were safe but they aren’t~

They use poisons in  their ingredients because it is cheaper to make and they make a great profit on them, but they could use safer ingredients that will work, but corporate greed prevents them.

They say ‘only’ 1:10,000 die, but after reading so many horror stories of adverse reactions in pets and the lengths and expense owners have to go through to save their pets, I bet the fatality rate is much higher.

I am now  joining with other organizations in making others aware of the
dangers of flea drops on cats.No cat or dog should have to suffer this way!

Its hard to believe that only using 2 drops  was so devastating to my cat!

 Worse now is all the stories I am reading online of other pets dying terrible deaths from owners not only using  flea drops, but flea shampoos and even flea collars cause illness , allergic reactions and death.

 I will not put another  Flea Collar  on her either, ever again as sure enough the spot near her tail is already starting to grow new fur and her coat is softer again- that fast! – only a few days~!

So the flea collar was causing her fur to fall out because the poisons used in them enter the sebaceous glands just like the flea drops do and can cause hair loss anywhere on the pet’s body. Since she didnt lose fur around her neck I didnt associate the fur loss to the flea collar.

Yet with all this, I still saw fleas on her, so I decided to put those 2 drops of flea treatment  on her neck~ So it isnt bad enough the ingredients  turn out to be potentially lethal,  it didnt even relieve her of the fleas either~!

The Vet recommendes Advantix Flea Drops and so treated her before she was discharged from the hospital. She said Advantix and Frontline are the only ones they feel are ‘ safe enough’  for animals and that none of the over the counter Hartz or Sargents products are safe!

Why then are they still allowed to sell them and use the ingredients that prove time and time again to be so dangerous to pets?

I now will need  to try to raise extra money  to cover  the  emergency Veterinary bills.

http://avehurleyillustrations.ning.com/page/accidental-cat-poisoning

THANKYOU FOR YOUR HELP~!

Ave Hurley

Accidental Cat Poisoning story: http://avehurley.wordpress.com/2009/07/01/common-flea-drops-will-quickly-kill-your-cat/

http://tiny.cc/HelpCat

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Common Flea drops WILL quickly KILL your CAT !

Read more: http://tiny.cc/HelpCat

I didn’t know better but should have~ I picked up a single dose tube of Sargents Flea Drops . I had already used them on another pet but there were a couple of drops left so I  squeezed out the last 2 drops to put them on the back  of  her neck.

I could not read any of the microscopic fine print on the card   the vial was attached to as it was too blurry for my eyes but thought it might not be enough so planned on buying more the next day. I was only looking to give her some relief as her flea collar just didnt seem to work well enough.

Still I knew my cat was about 6 lbs and she was scratching terribly from the fleas that the dogs & other 2 cats  brought into the house had  found their way to her.

She had been extremely itchy & when sitting on my bed several fleas had popped on my bedspread, so I caught & killed them quickly  and then looked for the open tube of  flea poison for her as I had already had put some on the other 2 cats since they were the ones going outside. I was only able to squeeze out 2 drops on my finger and rubbed them on the back of her head.

 3 hours later she suddenly was convulsing and writhing, foaming at the mouth and bursting into fits running and crashing into things. My son saw her first and called me saying he thought she had rabies .

My son caught her when she ran into a bathroom closet & we caged her. I told  him since she had never been outdoors that it was  impossible for her to have rabies & that she had a rabies shot last year anyway.

I said it had to  have something to do with the flea drops I used on her, so I began looking up online symptoms and found that the drops could cause those symptoms. 

We began calling vets , all closed ~ but the one located at Animal Crackers former building outside of Wellsboro was familiar with flea drop poisoning, so the Vet told us to come right down and a Vet Tech, Hillary met us there, took our cat and began treatment immediately.

There is a different flea killing ingredient in dog flea drops than in cat flea drops which when used on cats attacks their liver and central nervous system~ highly toxic to cats~but some are also toxic to dogs ! I wasn’t sure which one I had used as I had a tube for the puppies too and both were out of the cartons so I brought the tube that  I  used  and gave it to the tech so that it might help in diagnosing what meds to give her.

 So it isn’t size and weight issue, its an actual chemical poison used in flea drops that is the issue and my cat has almost died from it.Now I see dogs too are dying from it.

I just called the vet and she is still alive and may recover thankfully. She is still being treated. It will be a very expensive lesson on my part and is extremely traumatic and life threatening for my poor cat as she is less than 2 years old and trusted me to take good care of her!

Treatment includes bathing off all the residue of the drops immediately with a soap based shampoo.

Intravenous fluids are important to stop the dehydration and to admininster muscle relaxers since the poison attacks the cat’s central nervous system.

Other meds including sedatives and pain relief are also needed.

Although some cats/dogs can survive this poisoning , some owners decide to ‘ride it out’ without veterinary care, the cat/dog will most likely die~ the pain involved as well as the involuntary writhing and convulsing is extremely painful to the pet –

SO VETERINARY CARE IS NEEDED IMMEDIATELY~

DON’T WAIT IT OUT~Your pet is in excrutiating pain,convulsing,seizing,vomiting and running into things~!!

THERE IS NO HOME REMEDY TO SAVE YOUR PET~

YOU HAVE TO SEEK VETERINARY HELP IF YOU WISH TO SAVE YOUR PET~!

So an ignorant but well meaning action on my part, I caused my dear little cat to suffer horribly~ I called the vet today and she is responding to treatment since I got her there right away~ and she might be able to come home tomorrow~Thank God~! I didnt want her to die.

So I may be late with my rent this month, as the treatment is expensive, I am sure, as I have not received the billing yet~and will have to of course, pay for my mistake before bringing my cat home.

Included below is articles I found today, that explain what this poison does to cats~[since my cat was the one affected] so be aware that  Flea Drops instructions have to be carefully followed but looking for signs of a reaction is very important as the toxins build up in the animal and may work  one time but the next time could be the amount needed to be toxic.

Also it isnt merely a marketing issue that they mark some cards for puppies, dogs or cats as there can be other ingredient strengths that are not safe [none are actually 'safe'] or that just because something is safe  on dogs or other animals doesnt make it safe for cats or puppies !! I just saw a video of a full grown labrador retriever dying 3 days after a flea bath~!!

I am so sorry that I put my poor cat through this and will always look to check safety of a product in the future.My Vet says none of the over the counter flea products are safe and since many outsource to other countries that they may even have some mixtures stronger than others so they can not be trusted~

Now why these flea drop companies do put a some small warnings like do not use on cats -[if you can find the warnings hidden in the fine print] it should of instead been emphatic “WILL KILL CATS“  Or Dogs~!

Or  better Warning  “Just  ONE DROP CAN KILL  YOUR  PET ” would have been more to the point- STRONGER WARNING LABELS ARE NEEDED~

Naturally then no one would buy them~! So they hide the danger in how they word things on their packaging , so most people assume they’re safe.

The Vet  & also blogs show this is  a common mistake many pet owners make. I am not the first fool to do this~

Safety of Flea Drops
As mentioned above because topical flea treatments utilize modern drugs targeting insect nervous systems or growth hormones they are much safer for your pet than older flea poisons, or so they claim!

There are endless amounts of  cases of side-effects but they are few and far between and usually extremely mild.

The most common form of side effect is an allergy to the non-active components in the flea drops. These are usually very mild vomiting or temporary hair loss at the site of administering the product. Animals with such allergies are obviously better treated with a different form of flea control in future.

The widespread fear of flea drops comes primarily from incorrect use of the products, according to those selling them, but the toxins used can affect each animal differntly so they should be banned.

For example giving a small animal a dose specified for a much larger one, or even more dangerous, giving dog medicine to a cat, but they dont know what to say to the person who used the medicine according to directions and the animal still dies~

 Cat’s are highly sensitive to one ingredient often used in dog flea control products so should never be given anything other than a cat flea treatment, but then again ones designated for cats specifically still can kill cats.Likewise ones made specifically for dogs are still killing dogs ~ so there is something else the manufacturer is not doing right. It’s easier for them to blame the grieving pet owner and try to confuse them by saying they had to be the ones who did something wrong, when a pet owner can not always recognize the signs of an allergic reaction or of a toxic reaction.

For some more information about your cat flea treatment click on the link.

 Some ingredients are meant to render female fleas unable to lay viable eggs. If an insect is affected it is unable to reproduce so drug-resistant offspring should not be a problem, according to those manufacturing it, but this ingredient also enters a cat and dogs sebaceous glands through the skin, so as a poison will have some sort  of accumulative effect and while one dog or cat may be more resisitant to side effects another one may not as is the case in all those who have reactions and all those who die from the flea products.

Longer Lasting Flea Control
With most flea killing products there is also opportunity for a residual effect. Because flea drops are actually absorbed in the animal’s oil gland network the active ingredients remain at the surface of the skin for a relatively long time.

All the leading topical cat flea treatments will remain effective for at least a month. In practice some such as Frontline will actually carry on providing complete flea protection for six weeks and while Frontline and Advantage are more expensive to use, they are safer than Hartz or Sargents, since they use cheaper ingredients which are more dangerous.

Safety of Flea Drops
As mentioned above because topical flea treatments utilise modern drugs targeting insect nervous system or growth hormones they are much safer for you pet than older flea poisons.

There are cases of side-effects but they are few and far between and usually extremely mild to severe and to fatalities that often go unreported.

 The most common form of side effect is ’said to be an allergy’ to the non-active components in the flea drops, but some reactions are to the toxins in them and not allergic but actually  lethal to many pets.

Manufacturers dont want the bad publicity so sometimes pay off victims as it is still cheaper than changing their product ingredients to something safer.

The manufacturers say reactions are usually very mild vomiting or temporary hair loss at the site of administering the product, as they downplay the danger of their products  and exploit the owners need to be rid of the fleas.

 Animals with such ‘allergies’, they will concede,  are obviously better treated with a different form of flea control in future, should the owner be lucky enough to recognizze the milder reactions.Or if the pet survives ~

They claim that the  widespread fear of flea drops comes primarily from incorrect use of the products according to the manufacturers, but thats a lie since  many die from correct usage as well !

 For example giving a small animal a dose specified for a much larger one, or even more dangerous, giving dog medicine to a cat, are their obvious arguments , but what about the larger dogs who die suddenly from accurate dosing? What chances do the smaller dogs and cats have when big dogs also die from it?

How many pet owners who are not doctors, vets or scientists, rely on and  trust the manufacturers to supply a safe effective product?

It is already known and admitted that cats are highly sensitive to an ingredient often used in dog flea control products so should never be given anything other than a cat flea treatment, but they are also sensitive to other ingredients and so there is still a problem with keeping these products available for public use.

 Ingredients that are toxic to animals should not be used~!There are many nontoxic ingredients available but Hartz & Sargents are too greedy to use them and rather let pets die.

Toxic ingredients need to be banned and made illegal.

They should be removed from the shelves of stores.

For more information about your cat flea treatment click on the link which has some info but may be jaded by the special interest groups .

I wish I read this  and other articles before applying those drops to my cat~! I never would have used them at all and now will only use what the Vet recommends~

http://www.buzzle.com/articles/understanding-topical-cat-flea-treatments.html

Here is another case & people also trying to raise awareness:

http://www.hartzvictims.org/2004/07/27/flea-medicine-poisoning/

Symptoms  of one ingredient in many flea drop remedies: http://pethealth101.com/poison/PoisonSigns&Symptoms.shtml

Permethrin poisoning Cats is another one for example: http://www.petalia.com.au/templates/storytemplate_process.cfm?specie=Cats&story_no=2147&pafid=2349

Flea poison ingredient for dogs is different than for cats but both can still kill your pets~ http://www.nearlydrferox.blogging4life.com/?p=436

Cat owners accidentally poisoning their cats ~!http://www.cats.com.au/articles/486/catownerspoisoningtheirpets.shtml

while many products do say not to use on cats, many owners assume the ingredients to kill the fleas wont kill their cats but that it is merely stronger medicine, so think applying smaller amounts would be safe ~ when in fact it isnt safe and can often be deadly~

BEFORE YOU CAN FIND A VET : IMMEDIATE FIRST AID FOR CATS and Dogs is to wash them thoroughly with Dawn dishwashing detergent to remove the oily base holding the poison in the fur and on the skin of the animal [not to be instead of vet care ,only if a vet is unavailable]http://www.bigcatrescue.org/poisons.htm

Even some flea collars can kill your cat~! http://www.getipm.com/articles/letters/flea-collar.htm

Manufacturers need to stop using ingredients that are toxic to animals and meanwhile make stronger stated warnings on their products and not simple benign statements such as ‘DO NOT USE ON CATS’ – because buyers are not aware of how deadly these products are  and assume they are safe since they are sold over the counter in supermakets and pet stores.

My cat is expected to recover. The bill is going to be very high and I can not afford it , living myself on disability~  All I can do is hope to raise awareness to prevent this from happening to others.

Ave Hurley

Http://AveHurleyIllustrations.ning.com

An ironic end to James P Hurley Sr., formerly of Philadelphia & Knoxville Pa.,

 

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JAMES PATRICK HURLEY SR.,

James Patrick Hurley Sr., DOB 11/25/42 ss# 201-32-2592, was a disabled elderly man that met a woman on the internet, almost 6 years ago that began offering him money to marry her ‘on paper.’
 
She was 20 yrs younger, boasted of having over $400,000 in the bank and a great career in the Pentagon as a finance officer or something.
 
Jim was intrigued as to why she was pursuing him and greatly flattered.
 
Here he was divorced, an alcoholic and disabled from a car accident, was  on SSI and this woman told him she could make him her dependent and would give him $50 a day [$1500 per month]on an ATM card to simply go to a Justice of the Peace with her and that he could continue to live where he was but receive the money.

 
He began to joke back and forth with the woman who got increasingly
persistent about  wanting to get married, even though up to then,
 they never met in person. She told him that she didn't like her last
 name and wanted a new one and would make it worth his while.
Ave Hurley, who divorced Jim because of his drinking in 2001 and DUI
 in Tioga County Pa and was on probation, not allowed to drink, kept 
refusing to remarry Jim until he got a needed brain surgery and cleaned up from his drinking. They still were in daily contact and he frequently came home for dinner when he was sober or Ave brought him meals whenever he called saying  he was hungry and had no money left. He had been asking Ave to take him to her church with her but she said only if he was sober as it was a little fellowship  in Sunderlinville and she didn't want him causing any commotions there. Ave went every weekend with mutual friends Darcy & Asa as their daughter was best friends with Jim & Ave's daughter Katy.
Jim began to think about the deal Karen Corrente was offering him 
that he could do this for her and still remain near his family and simply
wouldn't tell anyone about it, since Ave was refusing to remarry him 
anyway and telling him if he didn't stop drinking he would be alone and
 old.
Ave needed surgery in Sayre which was a 'same day' surgery and had
 to be accompanied, so Jim went with her and brought his bible to
 read while she had her throat operated on. Jim again asked about 
going to church and Ave said she would bring him. She again 
 reiterated that she wasn't interested in remarrying him at the time, 
as he was still on probation and still occasionally binge-ing.
Karen was a Lt.Colonel in the Air Force in her early 40's, a spinster,
Jim initially thought and she boasted about working in the Pentagon. 
That peaked Jim's interest as he was always a  military buff and had a
 son in the Army.

On the last Monday in March of 2003, Ave agreed to take Jim to 
church and was going to pick him up for a special service at the 
church early in the evening.

Karen called up before Ave was to pick Jim up and  convinced Jim
 to meet him as she had rented a car and came up to Westfield Pa 
 that night and explained that she could provide more money for Jim 
as 'her dependent' than he was getting on SSI and that  it wouldn't 
cost her anything as she was entitled to have a dependent and that
she was soon deploying to Guam and wanted to be married before she left.
 
Jim was very enticed by the money, as she took him out to dinner
 negotiated to pay off his fines 

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for a DUI he was on probation for  as well as split the allotment she 
would receive if she had a spouse and he then agreed to do it. 
 
Jim  later said that as  long as he didn't have to tell anyone, especially
his family that it was an easy way to get money and since Ave wouldn't 
remarry him, what did it matter anyway~He was divorced and lived alone
 in Senior citizen housing in Westfield Pa. and thought this would be a good
 way to be able to provide more for his children.
 
Next morning the 'couple' drove to Painted Post NY to the local 
magistrate and bought a license. They went out to dinner and waited
 til the next morning's appointment with the Judge and were secretly 
legally married. 

When filling out the license Jim discovered she was previously married
 twice and he hesitated as he didn't believe divorced women could 
remarry and then she convinced him that it was only on paper and he
 could continue living where he was and that it would be their little 
secret. He knew he wasn't going to consummate the marriage, so 
convinced himself to override his belief that divorced women couldn't
 remarry, a belief he held his entire life~!
 
Karen took Jim back home and dropped him off, giving him money and
 told him as soon as she registered the marriage certificate at work, 
she would send him a new debit card with her new married name and
 he could withdraw $50 a day.
 
Later on Jim said this was like winning a lottery, as he was still able 
to collect his SSI, since the card was in her name. The whole scheme
 was distasteful in the least. 
 
Karen was to be the second in command in Guam for 18 months and
 by having a married status she was eligible to have a house instead
 of an apartment. She told Jim this was why she wanted to be married
 before deploying. Jim knew already from son Thomas in the Army that 
often soldiers married friends for the allotment when they went 
overseas and split the  money and just got annulments or divorces 
when they returned. It  isn't ethical but apparently legal.

Meanwhile Katy found out her father was remarried and told her 
mother. After hearing the details of the arrangement Ave told Jim to 
be careful since there was no decent reason for him to be married to 
this woman, given his condition and impotency, that something was
 'off' and that he should be careful not to let her insure him as she 
might be planning on killing him later~

When Ave realized Jim actually married someone else, she went home
 with a bottle of brandy, got deliberately drunk and cried all night,
 saying Jim 'sold  out' and was going to die for it! Katy and James 
consoled her, assuring her Dad was going to be okay.  

Jim began calling Ave and saying he needed to talk and to explain it
 was just a business relationship and that it meant he could buy things
 for the kids and take them out to eat at restaurants instead of just
 McDonald's. 

He said that Karen was a nice lady and only wanted to help him. He 
met her on Military.com chat room.

Ave didn't trust Karen's motives from the start and told Jim he was 
being a fool. He convinced the kids to nag Ave to let Jim take them 
to dinner in Corning for a pizza at Wegman's, where he wanted to 
talk and explain what his relationship to Karen was and Ave calmed 
down. He said she took it a lot better than he would have had Ave 
been the first to remarry. Ave warned him never to let her take 
an insurance policy out on him!~

Jim argued that Karen wasn't like that, but a week later Jim emailed 
Ave and said that he may have made a mistake and that he was 
thinking of getting an annulment. Ave said not to bother  
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on her account as she was disgusted that Jim did such a foolish thing
 for money, as he didn't know this woman and what would someone
 like her want with someone like him? 

This got Jim angry, but it was true. He was 20 yrs older than
 Karen, diabetic, alcoholic, physically impotent, living on SSI,
 smoking and on probation for a DUI and lost his license. 

It didn't make any sense that a successful woman in the military
 would want to marry such a man, no matter how desperate she
 was unless she had an ulterior motive~! 

Jim said he didn't care what her motives were as he showed Ave his
 ATM card with her name on it and how she was giving him $50 a day
 and only visited him about once a month to go out for dinner. He
 often kissed the card and held it up in the air~ 

Jim also had a dishonorable discharge from the Army back in the early
 60's for rejoining after being  put out on a court marshal and had 
rejoined without telling of his prior service in Germany, so he was 
put out a second time, even though he had done well the second 
time and made soldier of the month and wanted to remain in the 
Army. He was recognized by someone from his first failed tour, when
 he made soldier of the month and again put out because he falsified
 his entry papers. 

This bothered Jim all his life as he loved the  military- so here he 
thought he could regain some lost dreams, if he actually did go away 
with Karen to a military base in Guam. He started to prepare to go to
 Guam when his probation was finished late summer.

In late April or early May of 2003 Jim called Ave and said he thought 
he broke his shoulder and needed a ride to Soldier's and Sailor's 
Memorial Hospital in Wellsboro. Ave brought him and he asked her to 
go  in with him so she did. He said he had fallen down a flight of stairs 
the weekend before but stayed home all week before coming to the 
ER. It would have been odd for anyone else, but Jim had been sneak 
drinking the weekend before so he didn't want his probation officer
 knowing or he would go to jail so he waited til he got all the alcohol 
out of his system before asking Ave to bring him. 

The doctor looked at his black eye, broken collar bone and multiple
 bruises on his chest and abdomen and immediately said the injuries
 were  not from falling down stairs and Jim's probation officer came.
 The doctor said the bruises were from a small fist of a small man
 or probably a woman. The doctor said where the collar bone was
 broken, had it been from stairs he would have had to have had a
 broken neck as well. It was from a karate type chop or punch. 

The doctor and the probation officer asked Ave if she had done it or
 knew how he got it, but Ave told them that she had never hit Jim  
in all the years they were together and knew nothing about this injury
 as she didn't see Jim the weekend before. Afterwards she asked Jim 
what happened and he simply said 'never mind' because he was
 embarrassed. He had  fallen down a flight of stairs, but it was obvious 
someone beat him up first and then pushed him down the stairs! Ave
 brought him home and he had dinner then went back to his apt. He
 was using a sling for his collar bone.

He called daily and had Ave do some grocery shopping for him using
 his new Karen Hurley ATM Card~.He really liked that card and would
 actually kiss it when it was recharged daily like manna. He said he 
had to spend it daily or she wouldn't add money to it. Ave didn't know
 what to make of this Karen, except something was definitely whackey
 .. 

Next Karen asked Jim about any minor children and he said yes, 
that it was his daughter 

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Katy but she lived with her mother Ave.  Karen told Jim to obtain her 
social security information and since the mother was also on SSI, that
 she would make his daughter her dependent as well and would pay
 any attorney fees so that  he could gain custody of Katy as well. Jim 
thought since Karen had been so generous so far, that it would be 
better for Katy to become her dependent as well. Ave didn't know
 about the plot at this point and was still taking Jim shopping and to
 doctor's appointments, as well as bringing over food when Jim called
 or emailed. Ave & Katy & James would sometimes go over to Jim's 
apartment and cook family dinners and watch movies. 

Ave was getting used to the idea that there was someone else in 
Jim's life and that perhaps it wouldn't be so bad for him, but she didn't
 want any of the kids meeting this woman before she did to make sure
 she felt safe with it. 

Ave originally suspected Karen may be a nut or a dyke and didn't want
 her daughter Katy, exposed if that was the case so made it clear to 
Jim that she had to meet her first.

One Friday night Jim invited Katy to stay overnight at his 
apartment, saying Karen wasn't expected that weekend. Ave let her 
go to spend the night but reminded  her that they were going to
 Watkins Glen in the  morning as James met one of the race drivers in 
Painted Post and was invited.

The next morning, Saturday,  Jim and Katy were gone! A neighbor said
 Karen had come up in another rented car and said they were going to
 the mall. Ave and James drove to the mall looking for a rented care 
with Virginia plates but couldn't find them. She was worried that Jim
 and Karen ran away with Katy as his whole marriage thing was bizarre
 by any standard. Jim also wasn't allowed to take Katy across state
 lines as Ave had sole custody. Ave told Jim several times that she 
didn't want Katy exposed to this woman without meeting her first. This
 was a violation~!

While Jim , Karen and Katy were out, they went to eat and talk and 
Karen bought Katy an electronic thing. 

Leaving the mall, James and Ave went to the Painted Post, Walmart 
on their way back home and James spotted them while Ave was at
 the checkout, so she told James to go detain them and tell them she
 wanted to meet them. When Ave got her van pulled out she drove  
over to where James was as they got into Karen's rented car  hurriedly.
 

As Ave pulled alongside, Karen whipped out and they took off fast, so
Ave followed them. They had to stop behind a car at a red light, so
Ave got out of her van and ran up to their car and Karen rolled up the 
windows and looked forward, ignoring Ave. Katy was in the back seat 
and didn't know what to do since she knew she wasn't allowed out of
state with Jim and wasn't supposed to be with Karen until after Ave 
met and approved first. All three looked guilty!

Ave then ran in front of the rented car and put her hands on the hood
and shouted loud enough to be heard through the closed windows , 
that she only wanted to meet her first before Katy going anywhere 
with them, but that by her running like that, it was obvious they were
 up to no good.

Karen then rolled the car forward bumping Ave, as to try and make 
her jump out of the way, so Ave shouted at Karen that she was
 kidnapping out of state and was going to be reported and told Jim
 that he violated the custody and probation and she was turning him
 in. Ave refused to move away from the car til Katy was released. 
So this was Ave and Karen's first encounter.

Ave did report Karen to the Pentagon telling them of the money 
scheme business marriage and told Jim that Katy would have no more
 sleepovers. Jim later emailed Ave not to contact the Pentagon again 
as their marriage was 'legal' and he was prepared to make it look real.

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Katy later on after the weekend was over, told her Mom, Ave that
she heard Jim say in the car to Karen,” You know you broke my 
shoulder~!” and she cooly replied, “ Well, you deserved it~” 
[Ave never forgot that although Katy could barely vaguely remember
it years later. Ave then confronted Jim about it but he said that
Karen was going to pay for it, so he was still more greedy for
the presents and money she was giving him.

He admittted to Ave that weekend in question he had not gone to any
bar but had been drinking alone in his apt before she arrived and that
she was mad at him for it so that when she found him drunk and she 
went to leave by the stairs in the building to go out to the back parking
 lot and he had gone after her and tried to stop her, but she hit him 
several times at the top of the stairs and that he fell down them, while
 trying to pull her back and she shrugged him off. Neighbors came out 
and helped him up and she went out the back door and left.]

A few weeks Karen told Jim that if he would agree to go to Guam that
 he could bring Katy, as well and that she was willing to pay his legal
 expenses to gain custody of Katy. Jim thought he would be safer if
 Katy went with him and then set about to fight Ave for custody of 
Katy, which led to many more custody arguments and Jim began to
 drink heavier again. He violated his probation in public, was spotted 
by local police and went to jail for the remainder  of his sentence 
which was beyond the time Karen had left before she deployed in 
June 2003.

While Jim was incarcerated, Karen came up and used the spare 
key to Jim's apartment and began rummaging through his
 belongings and throwing out everything his children had given 
him over the years, little pictures, cards, hand made drawings 
and things that were dear to him as well has his multi 1000's of
 file cards of a bible study he was working on over 20 yrs. 
This was done out of spite and anger.

A neighbor called Ave and she and son James went over to the apt 
complex after Karen had left and retrieved the items from the dumpster
.  Ave visited Jim in jail and asked why he was throwing away all his 
memories of their children and he became livid about what Karen had 
done. Ave held onto those precious memory items and gave them back
 to Jim when he got out of jail. 

Meanwhile Karen  had to deploy to Guam, so Jim failed to obtain 
custody of Katy and for safety Ave moved Katy to Phoenix to her 
oldest daughter Sharran's to remain a year and finish school.

Katy had to get away from the arguments Jim and Ave were having 
over custody and the embarrassment Jim had caused Katy by being 
sent to jail. Katy was heartbroken and torn between both parents and 
Ave decided  it was best to remove Katy from the chaos because Jim 
sent an email saying Karen was placing her money at Jim's disposal to 
lure Katy away.

With Katy's Social Security Information this  gave Karen a 'family 
on paper'. She sent brochures and forms about Guam to Jim so that 
should he decide to go, when his probation was up, that it would be 
easier. She also included paperwork to fill  out for Katy if he could get
 Katy to go.Karen then claimed Katy on her taxes and Tricare for 3-4 
yrs without permission~! 

Katy was married to a Marine 2 yrs ago and had trouble getting 
her husband's Tricare when it was found out Karen had claimed 
her instead. Katy had to get Jim to give Tricare Karen's social 
security number to have her removed from her policy. Also the 
first year Katy filed income tax found that Karen also claimed 
Katy as her dependent for tax credit.

Months passed and Karen was questioned about her 'family' and 
needed to present them and so she contacted Jim and asked if he 
would come to Guam since he was out of jail and if he could get his 
daughter that it would be even better, but Jim tried said his daughter 
was brought to Phoenix 
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and Ave signed custody over to her oldest daughter by the time Jim 
got out  of jail, which ended that part of the plot.

Jim then had second thoughts perhaps  this arrangement wasn't as 
good as it seemed and decided not to go either. 

He said he could ship his stuff over as it was second hand and that
 with the $50 a day he could buy new furniture so he went along with 
Karen's plan of moving his things the end of October, by military 
transport. 

Karen made a shopping list of unassembled mission style furniture that 
she needed to fill her house in Guam with and that the Military would
 pay to ship it but she needed Jim to go and buy it first and that if he 
sent his furniture along with the items she wanted, that they had to 
be shipped from his apartment as her dependent coming to live with 
her in Guam. 

Ave came back from Phoenix to pack her house as it was being 
foreclosed on because the mortgage had fallen behind because of Jim 
back when they got divorced and since he had gutted the interior, 
they couldn't get a new loan. The APR had risen and so Ave was 
back from Phoenix to pack the family belongings and find a place to 
move. It was going to take at least a month to take care of everything

Jim came up with a plan to save the house. He said that he could 'hire' 
Ave to take him to shop for specific items and furniture and pay her 
past mortgage debt of $6800- and that since Karen had been so 
generous with him that he would make the back mortgage payments 
so that James , Kyle & Ave wouldn't lose the house and so Katy  had
 a home to come back to. Jim had owed over over $9000 from the 
mortgage loan and this was his way to repay it. 

Karen made a shopping list of unassembled mission style furniture that 
she needed to fill her house in Guam with and that the Military would
 pay to ship it but she needed Jim to go and buy it first and that if he 
sent his furniture along with the items she wanted that they had to be 
shipped together from his apartment.

Jim agreed to ship his belongings and her shopping list items, but was
 still reluctant to go so far from home away from his children. He said 
that he hadn't any problem sending his furniture, as it was mostly
 second hand and that with the money Karen was giving him daily, 
that he could always buy new

Ave needed to take Jim shopping every day for the next 30 days and 
also pack his apartment up and  then he would have Karen put the 
back mortgage payment on his card and pay it off. 

James Jr. didn't want to pack the home anyway and said it was a
 good idea and Kyle was just  back from Abraxas having finished school 
and the house had a lot of possessions, accrued over the years, so it 
seemed an easier solution to work for Jim and Karen and save the 
house than to pack the house and move.

After all the work was done and the Fiamingo Movers came to crate 
up the apartment to ship to Guam, Ave lent Jim a bed til it was time 
to go or if he was going to stay as he was still ambivilent about leaving.
 Karen bought him a plane ticket for November 2 and Ave agreed to 
take him to the airport when the time came and  meanwhile lent him 
a folding bed. 

Meanwhile the day came for Ave & James to go to court to either pay 
the back payment or the house would go for sheriff sale. Jim called
 Karen and spoke with her and then put Ave on the phone to talk to
 Karen about what was needed.  Karen told Ave that since the house
 was already 
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gutted and damaged by Jim that perhaps James could buy the house 
with the $800 that Ave had since she heard of cases where old houses
 could be bought for as little as a $1 and that she thought it would be
 a bad idea to try and pay the back mortgage so she declined to send 
the money~!

James Jr. and Ave went to the court but the minimum bid on the house
 had to be $15,000 for a new buyer so Ave was given  only 5 days to
  move out. Jim claimed Karen had backstabbed him and that he wasn't
 going to go to Guam because of it and he helped pack along with Ave 
and James and a few friends. They moved what they could to storage 
bins in the next town. By the deadline, only about 1/3 of the family 
possessions were moved and the rest was lost,  left behind as once
 the eviction date passed, no one was allowed back on the property. 

Had Ave not worked for Karen & Jim, she would have at least been able
 to save her possessions. It was a very stressful week. Ave rented a 
½ house in the next town. Jim's rent in his apt was over on the 31st 
so he had to leave his apartment. He had a plane ticket for the 2nd so 
he helped Ave move into the new place along with Kyle. James moved
 across the street from the old house into a friend's house since the 
new ½ house only had 2 bedrooms. 

Jim came too and slept on the couch. He was very sorry that the 
family home had been lost and 
with it most of the family possessions. It was just too much work to 
be done in only 5 days and he realized it was his fault for delaying Ave
 from packing it all.

Ave said that it was time to unload anyway, as the kids were bigger
 and they really didn't need all that stuff anyway and it probably would
 have ended up being yard saled later ON, so in a way it saved her a 
lot  of work. 

Everyone was exhausted from the fast pace of the week and the 
strain of moving . Jim wasn't feeling well and when Ave brought him to
 the airport, he said he couldn't go and had felt like he had diahrea , 
so his missed the first plane to Guam.

He then had his apt phone switched to Ave's new house, along with 
Ave's phone, so Karen could call him since he already moved out of his
 apt. He didn't want Karen knowing he was staying with Ave and Kyle 
yet. He said he would go to Guam but was sick and couldn't go at the
 time she wanted him to. 

He said she owed him money according to their agreement since he 
hadn't paid Ave for the work she did in preparing Karen's shopping 
order and all the work done to get his stuff to Guam for Karen. 

He developed a flu and it lingered. She called numerous times and was
 angry that  he had missed the plane since it was non-refundable and 
cost $1600. The  longer he waited, the more reluctant he was to leave.
 She sent another plane ticket and again he didn't go. She then 
contacted Ave and blamed her for him not leaving. Ave emailed her 
and said she hadn't stopped him from leaving and that perhaps Karen
 should come and take him as he wouldn't get on the plane. 

Karen said if he didn't come she was going to lose her house in Guam.
 

Jim didn't care as he said it was only temporary and she didn't own it 
anyway. He said she got all his worldly possessions now on their way 
by ship and that maybe he should cut his losses and get an annulment. 

They argued that by phone and she told  him she didn't want an 
annulment. 

At one point she also said maybe he should pay his own way to Guam 
as she wouldn't send page
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another ticket to be wasted and was going to deduct the one she lost
out on from what she admitted to owing him! He stopped answering
the phone and told everyone else not to answer it either. He was 
trying to figure out what he should do. I told him it was his own fault
 for getting involved with  her scheme in the first place.

Weeks  passed and Jim was not ready to go and made no plans. He
 sort of took up residency on the couch. He thought if he ignored the 
situation a resolution would magically appear.

She then started to cut off his $50 a day and he had to answer the 
phone and talk to her in order for her to put money on his card, so he
 began to talk to her again and told her he had been sick. By then 
either he told her or she figured out he was staying with Kyle and Ave.
 
Karen then begged him to go and said if he came just for a few weeks 
and didn't like it that he could go back home but that she needed him
 to at least appear to stop the questions being raised as to whether 
Karen was indeed married.

Jim began to tell Ave that she was his real wife, no matter what the 
paper said.He said he never signed any divorce papers so he didn't 
acknowledge them. Ave said he did acknowledge them as he used 
them to marry Karen!  He said she was always the mother of his 
children and that he didn't want to go to Guam and to realize how 
much better they had been getting along those 2 months he stayed 
on her couch! 

Ave said paper or not he was legally married to Karen and it wasn't 
right for him to be staying at her house, even though their son was
 always present and they remained plutonic. Jim said he wanted to 
wait til after the New Year since Tom their son was coming back from
 Korea for a vacation before going to Iraq. He again began ignoring
 Karen's calls but then when his ATM card hit zero he would answer 
the phone and talk to her and told her he would be ready after New 
Years putting her off a few more weeks, not committing to going or 
staying. He told Ave she could have avoided the whole thing if she 
would have married him again when he had asked her to. Ave reminded
 him that they were a disaster when married and that it never would 
have worked out. It was getting harder for Ave too since for once 
they weren't arguing as they did over the years. The focus was what 
to do about Karen and what should he do to make things right all 
ways around.

Tom came in from Korea before Christmas. Mood gears switched to a 
final holiday together, with Kyle and James but Katy remained with 
Sharran in Phoenix. It was the first Christmas without Katy but the 
first  one in a few years with Tom.

Ave told Tom that Dad couldn't make up his mind about going to 
Guam but since he was still accepting money from Karen that he 
needed to go and make things right, one way or another. Ave was
 starting to feel sorry for Karen being kept hanging on, so she asked 
Tom to talk positively to Jim about taking the trip over there and then
 appealed to his greed by showing him the military pay scale and 
separation pay she got for him and his estimated share of spousal 
support that Karen 'owed' him. Tom and Jim had many talks during
 this time as Tom was writing a book and showed the manuscript to
 Jim. 

There was a New Years party at the new home and Asa & Darcy came 
over with their daughter and card games were played and everyone
 had been drinking. Jim then decided he would go, but that he wanted 
to come back in a  few weeks or a month at most. He said he was
going to get the money she owed him and then ask for an annulment, 
come home and try to buy the family home back. He said while he
 was gone that he wanted to continue getting  his SSI check sent to
 the new home as he was going to tell Karen that after she gave 
what he felt she owed him that he wasn't going to accept anything
 more . He seemed fairly certain of his mission to Guam. At least now
 he was being somewhat definitive and making decisions instead of 
keeping everyone guessing. He said that when his check came, if he 
wasn't back to send it to Sharran to help 
 
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support Katy and to help the boys since Kyle was only 18 and out of 
work at the time. He said he didn't want it forwarded to Guam 
because she would take care of him while he was there and he would 
come back soon and didn't want to have to go through all the 
paperwork and waiting time again.

When Karen called the next time Ave spoke with her and told her 
that she could get a round trip ticket by Priceline.com cheaper than 
a one way and Ave looked it up online and found a ticket for $400
 instead of the $1600 tickets Karen had lost money  on. 

Ave assured Karen that since Tom was home that they'd get Jim on 
the plane for sure, so she did as Ave suggested and got the ticket
 and on Janurary 6, 2004 Tom, Kyle and Ave brought Jim to the Elmira 
Corning Regional Airport and bid Jim farewell on  his journey and he 
reminded everyone he would soon be coming back home. That was 
the last time Ave and Tom saw Jim alive.

Once Jim arrived in Guam, his allowance was cut off and he stayed in
 the house. Karen tried to make him want to stay by taking him on 
some excursions and buying him a new electronics and said she only
 had 1 yr left there, so Jim began to think that if he stayed a year, 
then he could also get possible alimony when they went stateside and
 agreed to wait til her tour was over. The only odd thing he had to do
 was be called Patrick as she told him it was his new beginning and he
 could forget his past. That was weird because Jim always was proud
 of his name but now he was living in a fantasy at this Air Force base
. He even said that he was vicariously a Lt.Col  like her and 
commanded the same respect. Ave said she knew he had to enjoy
 that as he had mental issues over the Army and always watched war 
 movies on TV so that must be why he was still there, despite all the 
promises he had once again made. Jim was never short on promises, 
only keeping them was the issue. 

Back in the late 90's Jim's  psychologist Dr.Palmer once said that Jim
 means it when he makes a promise, but his mental defect from his 
car accident, where he lost a portion of his frontal lobe brain made 
processing mathematical things and keeping promises difficult, as he 
got his satisfaction on making promises but not in keeping them.Jim 
always  had a lot of ideas, but never could effectively act on them. 
That was why he couldn't keep a job too over the years.

He did however study the bible voraciously and never tired of his 
studies and always wrote notes on file cards.

In June 2004, Ave & Kyle had to move as the house they were in was 
only a 30 day tenancy and the land lord wanted to  put it up for sale 
so gave notice they had to move. Ave found another house in 
Covington and it was a lot more expensive but rents all over were up, 
so Kyle and Ave and another boy Bill, Kyle's friend since high school, 
all moved in. Katy was due home in a few weeks as well. Katy had 
been talking to Jim regularly  and he said he was coming home soon 
as well. Tom lent Ave the deposit for the house and brought his fiance
and her daughter out for a week but they were both in the Army and 
had to go back to Ft.Sill before Katy came back.

In July 2004 Jim paid for a plane ticket for Katy to return home, but 
the ticket was to NYC since it was cheaper. Ave drove to NYC to pick
 
Katy up from Ave's sister Genie's home since Genie met Katy at the 
airport. Katy was 17 and had completed 2 yrs of school simultaneously
 and graduated 1 yr early. 

She was ready for her last 'kid' summer vacation and didn't look for 
work til the Fall. She planned on going to college and was looking 
forward to registering in late August. She was catching up visiting 
all her old friends, who all were still in high school, so she decided
 not to fill out her college applications and take a year off.  Shortly
 before her 18th birthday in November she began working at a 
telemarketing service.
 
In November 2004, Jim called his former wife,Ave crying and asking 
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home and that he could get his own plane ticket when former wife 
offered to buy his ticket.He again said he was coming home soon. 
Ave told him they all were waiting for him and the new rented house 
was big enough for everyone.

By this time Ave began planning Christmas in Phoenix going with Katy
 and the boys would stay in their new house in Covington Pa and said 
that Jim could move home and live with the kids, since Jim was now 
gone almost 10 months and no one knew exactly when he would come
 back. Ave had talked with Sharran about moving west when Jim
 returned since she felt it would be best for him to be with his kids,
 but that since he was gone so long that Ave wanted to leave before
 he returned. After spending Christmas in Phoenix, Ave made  plans 
with Sharran to return in March.

Katy was still in contact with Jim and his departure kept getting 
delayed and it became obvious he was going to return when Karen 
was ready for him to go and not before. Karen was due back around
 June. Katy was working steady. Kyle and Bill were still looking for 
work. Bill landed a job where Katy worked but Kyle was still out of 
work.

In February 2005, Bill found his own place in town and moved out and
 Kyle went with him. Katy also made friends with a girl at work that
 carpooled with her so she too now 18 decided to leave. Ave then 
contacted Sharran and moved in March. She gave James Jr charge 
of his Dad's mail and check and said to have Dad move with him when
 he got back, since he was taking too long and I couldn't afford the 
house on my own so I was moving to Phoenix. I told James to take 
care of the storage bin rent as both Dad's and family things were
 there that he would want when he got back. Jame said that he 
would get another house with Dad if he came home but was staying
 with his roommates meanwhile.
 
In June of 2005 Jim and Karen  returned to Alexandria Va and Karen
 resumed working in the Pentagon. Jim contacted his kids who now 
were each living with separate roommates and so decided to stay 
with Karen for the time being, continuing to take care of her pet cats
 and cook and clean for her.

He contacted his youngest daughter Katy and told her that there 
was a college nearby and if she would consent to move in with them,
 that Karen promised to pay for her college. Katy was 18 at the time
 and after talking with her mother, who was by then  in Oklahoma 
with Tom near Ft.Sill after spending 3  months in Phoenix, agreed  to
 go and Karen came with Jim and took Katy to their apt. Karen got 
Katy a Tricare card and gave her a rechargeable ATM card like her 
Dad had  a few years ago and was acting like she was making her a 
dependent but never recharged the card. 

Once there Katy saw that things were strained at best and her 
presence was increasingly uncomfortable. She got a part time job 
and was told if she stayed she would get a car and could enter 
college in a few months. That soon ended when Karen tried to talk
 Katy into joining the Air Force in order to go to college. 

Katy met a Marine and went on a date and Karen threw a fit and 
argued with Jim that Katy shouldn't be going 'out' . Jim saw no
 problem with it but Karen began to act more controlling and 
manipulative and decided not to provide the car or college as 
promised. She also told Katy to find her own way back to
 Pennsylvania as she wouldn't bring her back. Katy was stuck
 there in the maniacal relationship between Karen and Jim.

Katy called her mother,Ave in September and she came and drove 
from Oklahoma and picked  up Katy on Sept 22, 2005 and brought
 her back to Pa. providing she didnt have to see or speak to her 
former husband since he was still living with this woman from the 
internet. Karen had demanded the Tricare card back so Katy left it 
behind,not knowing she actually had any coverage as she never 
used it while there. She also left the bogus ATM card behind. In all 
she spent almost two months with them and Jim told her , he wished
  he could leave too but was stuck as his SSI 

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was cut off altogether and he had to repay the money he told Ave to

use for the kids. Social Security officials interviewed Ave in Oklahoma 
and she showed them what Jim had instructed and it was decided that
 only the amount after Katy was 18 and working was to be repaid 
since he used it for child support and it was his responsibility to have
 notified them when he was overseas. James Jr. repaid the checks he
 kept for his father anticipating his return to Pa.
 
Katy and her mother resettled in Pa. but Katy kept in close contact 
with her father and conveyed to the rest of the family that he was 
stuck financially bound to this woman, who provided food and shelter 
and at his age, that was sufficient, although he missed his sons and
 Katy and wanted to get a divorce so he could go back to Pa. He 
then tried to make the best of it and just did what Karen wanted, 
taking care of her cats and the house , cooking for her. It seemed to
 settle down a bit for  a while as she was out most of the time and 
he enjoyed being alone as he had the  internet and TV and a lot of 
books to read and worked on his bible studies. Ave didn't talk to Jim 
at all during this time, since he failed to do what he had promised for
 Katy.Ave & Katy lived in Blossburg til Sept 2006 and then moved to 
James trailer while looking for another house. Katy stayed mostly at
 Asa & Darcy's as she was able to carpool to her old job from there.
 
In  November of 2006 Katy, James and their mother moved into a 
small farmhouse in Mansfield. For Thanksgiving James and Ave went
 to Ft.Sill to visit son Thomas and his family. 

Katy remained home due to her work schedule and Kyle came from 
Ohio. Jim and Karen were invited up and spent Thanksgiving 2006 
with them at Ave's house. Both children noted the increasing friction
 between Jim and Karen. Jim by now was getting more frustrated 
living with Karen and told Katy about it.
 
Katy was engaged to a Marine, Cpl.David Bowman, who was returning
 from Iraq  in Feb 2007, so flew to Phoenix the end of January 2007 
to await his arrival back at Camp Pendleton and was married shortly
 after his return and live in San Diego.
 
A few days after Katy left, James and Kyle were involved a serious
 car accident in Feb 2007, leading to Kyle moving back home with his 
mother and James.
 
James had been in frequent phone contact with his father, the 
accident began new dialogue between Jim and his former wife Ave. 

They began to talk daily concerning their children and about their 
previous biblical studies and became friends again. Jim spoke about
 how he and Karen never talked about the bible and it was hard for
 him to find anyone to fellowship with in his studies, so Ave invited 
him to some online bible groups she belonged to and they both were
 in contact daily and involved online with mutual friends. 
 
Jim talked about getting a divorce,as  him and Karen had little in 
common and argued or ignore one another most of the time, but 
Karen received orders that she was going to deploy to Afghanistan 
in the summer of 2007, so Jim agreed to wait til her return and take
 care of her apartment and her cats. 
 
When Karen was ready to deploy she had a bunch of papers drawn
 up in July of 2007, that if Jim remained, would make him beneficiary
 to her estate should something happen to her in Afghanistan and 
then had a set of papers drawn that Jim's children would be 
beneficiaries, if something were to happen to Jim. 

He didn't read all the fine print on the papers, but signed all the 
papers and told Ave and their sons that all he had to do was wait
 til Karen returned from Afghanistan and they were going to get a 
divorce and he was going to receive a settlement from her and buy 
a house in Pennsylvania. He had added in that he wanted to be
 buried one day in Arlington Natl Cemetery but that was more a 
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joke since he didn't qualify and could only go there under Karen's 
active duty privilege.

While she was deployed Jim began to read through the paperwork 
and realized Karen wasn't doing anything for him as he had no doubts 
she would return safely but that he still wasn't benefiting by remaining
 with her. They began to argue on the phone and through emails. 
Jim saved those emails of her intent and how she really treated him 
and he sent some to Katy to read but kept most of them in files in 
his email to use later if needed for the divorce.

At one point he was going to have James Jr., get a Uhaul and move 
him out from her place and take his furniture and things she had 
bought him. Then he found he didn't have the access to money he 
would have needed to move with so he changed his mind and decided
 to wait til she got back but by then she also wanted a divorce  and 
told him off in Oct 2007 that she was through with him.

Jim also continued emailing and calling Ave frequently and talked to
 James and Kyle as well. Although he and Ave never planned on 
getting back together again they remained friends and continued to 

discuss the bible and their children's problems as well as current events. 
They used to joke about 'when we got divorced are we still sister and 
brother?' as both had a deep desire to study the bible and participate 
on the bible forums, often teaming up in debates and other discussions.

On Oct7,2007 Karen emailed Jim that she was through with him. He
then began to save other emails and sent copies of some to Katy,
so he could have a witness to the condition of his farce of a
marriage but decided to wait til Karen returned and then divorce
her.

Karen returned in Feb of 2008 and was not satisfied with how Jim 
took care of the cats and the house so she took Jim's cat and placed 
it in the animal shelter to punish him. 

She was more of a manipulator than he was. She also moved them to 
an apartment that had more stairs making it more difficult for Jim to 
come and go. She also made him carry all the shopping items and 
groceries when they did go out, even when his health was failing.

Jim then asked her about the divorce Jan/Feb 2008  and she said 
they could divorce but she wasn't going to give him anything. He then 
told her he wasn't leaving without what she had promised him and 
she told him she would see him dead before she ever gave him 
a penny!
 
Jim's sons told their father to just leave her and come home. Jim told 
them and Ave that in Virginia, he read online, that if they were 
divorced and if he got a lawyer he might be entitled to up to half of
 her networth, so he decided to hang in a while and let her get tired
of him and offer him a reasonable settlement. He was a stubborn man
 and felt entitled since he just accommodated  Karen for 4 years 
away from his family and she owed him, since she received an 
allotment for him as well. He had Katy research Virginia divorce law 
for him to see his options. He didn't really want to make an issue 
with courts but had hoped Karen would tire of the bickering and give
 him enough to leave and start over somewhere else, but she wouldn't.
 They each made each other's lives miserable.
 
In July 2008 Jim got a physical from the military doctors who informed
 him that he had kidney disease and would be needing dialysis soon.
 Jim didn't believe it,as he didn't feel sick. Jim had had all sorts of 
diagnosis' over the years that said his health was worse than it was.
 His brain injury with the frontal lobe and bone missing, allowed his to
 run high blood pressure without the normal ill effects for many years 
as well as his diabetes that he developed in his late 50's would often 
have numbers up to 400 and still  be functioning where another person
 would be in a coma! He was always an enigma to the doctors who 
treated him and didn't trust many of them either.

With this onset of kidney disease diagnosis, he was a bit concerned 
however and not sure it was even true. He said he could pee like a
 race horse and that he wanted a second opinion from a doctor he 
could trust. He said  he didn't trust the military doctors as they 
were all Karen's friends and she never let him get a word  in 
edgewise and she would tell them symptoms he didn't even have
 and got him a bunch of medicines that made him feel 

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dizzy and nauseous. He thought she was trying to scare him away 
or get him on meds that would kill him.

He called his sons who in turn called his daughters in Phoenix. Ave 
was in Phoenix and the sons wanted her to go back to Pa immediately
 to arrange a second opinion for Jim with the family doctor, Dr.Dy of
 Laurel Health in Mansfield Pa. His sons told him that if Karen wouldn't 
bring him for the appointment that they would go pick him up 
themselves.
 
Karen then agreed to take Jim to Pa., but only if Ave wasn't around 
which by now Ave had cut her trip to Phoenix short and returned 
7/28/2008 . Ave made  the arrangements and then took a trip to 
NYC to visit her family for a week ,so Jim and Karen could come to
 Pa and go to the family doctor. 

Dy Dy told Ave that Jim had to fax all of  his medical records for the 
past year including labs, to Dr. Dy in August of 2008 before he went
 for an appointment so he could review them thoroughly. The doctor 
told him that the disease wasn't necessarily as advanced at that
 point and that he might be able to avoid dialysis for a little while 
with some new medicines to try first. The doctor wanted Jim to go
 over to the local hospital and get additional some tests done and 
to return to his office in the morning.Jim and Karen began to argue 
and when they left Dr.Dy's she refused to take Jim to the hospital for
 the tests and got on the highway and headed back to VA., without 
stopping to say good bye to the boys~
 
 She refused to bring Jim to anymore doctor's appointments. 
Jim told Ave, Katy, James and Kyle that he didn't trust Karen's doctors 
as the meds they gave him made him feel sick. He said Dr.Dy prescribed
 something different.He stopped taking the meds and said he wanted 
to come back to Pa for treatment, but Karen refused saying she didnt
 have time for him.
Weeks passed and Jim knew he needed to see a doctor rather than let
 it slide and told Karen he would be willing to go back to the military
 doctors. She said she made him an appointment for 2 weeks later but 
then cancelled it as she had to go out of town. She made another 
appointment but that too was cancelled as were a few more.Jim still 
was feeling alright, but knew he had to see a doctor soon.
 
By the end of October or early November, Karen called Ave. She
 told Ave that Jim wasn't doing well and would soon die and that she 
wanted to have him cremated and send his ashes home to James. She
said he wanted to be buried in Arlington but that he couldn't be so she
 thought to send his ashes to his son so his children could bury him.

Ave informed Karen that no one in Jim's family ever got cremated and 
that his interment should be with his deceased parents and 
predeceased brother in their family plot in Philadelphia.

Karen mentioned that Jim said IF he died he wanted to be buried in 
Arlington National Cemetery,but that he was not eligible since it was 
only for active duty members and that Jim had been discharged from 
the Army back in the early 60's without any war service.
 
Karen claimed Jim wouldn't go to the doctors on his own and that
 she had no more time for him. She sounded frustrated and cold to 
Ave but it was awkward for the two to even speak on the phone since
 they hadn't talked since before Jim went to Guam.
 
Ave offered Karen, to bring James down and come and take Jim 
to obtain his medical treatment and then return him to her in 
Alexandria. 

Karen said that would be fine, if Jim agreed. [Karen was unaware 
that Jim talked to Ave daily as well we to their sons and Katy. ]The
 next day when Karen was at work, Jim called Ave.
 
Jim told Ave that Karen was up to something and was shocked 
that she had called Ave 

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and said Karen was trying to get rid of him without a settlement, 
but he wasn't going to give her 'any ammunition to get rid of him 
that easy', unless she gave him his settlement.
 
Ave warned Jim that his health should come first, but Jim said that
 Karen wanted him to come home, so that she could say he came
 back to Ave and then have grounds for a divorce, that he would get
 no settlement from. 

Jim assured Ave and their children that he was still alright and not
 having any symptoms of kidney failure.
 
As a good will gesture, Ave offered to make a Thanksgiving dinner and
 bring it along with James and Kyle to Alexandria to share with both 
Jim and Karen, but Jim said Karen would never go for it. 
 
Ave asked him about his upcoming doctor's appointment and he said it
 was again rescheduled in 2 weeks.The appointment again was 
cancelled so by now it was apparent that Karen meant what she said
 about not bringing him to any doctors anymore. 

The boys then asked to visit Jim for Christmas but he told them that 
Karen didn't want anyone coming to visit.
 
Meanwhile Ave looked up nephrologists in Alexandria and found a 
website for one that took Tricare and also treated diabetics. 
She offered to make an appointment for Jim and said he only 
needed to have Karen leave him cabfare so he could go on his 
own. Jim said that Karen left no money in the house and wouldn't 
give him cabfare but told him to take a bus. Since he was 
becoming frail and didn't know his way around he decided to wait 
til she would bring him to a doctor.
 
Jim talked with his sister Kathleen in Philadelphia, who wanted 
to visit him, but put her off as he was having more problems with 
Karen. 

Jim was now starting to get sick  and told everyone that he was now 
considering getting the dialysis right after Christmas , if needed but 
had to get Karen to take him to the doctor first to be sure that 
was what was to be done. He said Karen told him it was too late and 
that he was going to be with Jesus soon.
 
Right after Christmas Karen took Jim out to see Arlington 
National Cemetery and told him she found a way that IF he
 wanted to he could be buried there near his hero Audie Murphy,
 but that he had to agree to be cremated.

Jim was tickled at the idea and agreed that should he die it would be
 okay to cremate him IF she really would put him there. He was in no
 way thinking he would be going anytime soon but wanted proof she 
would actually put him there before giving consent for a cremation. 
Jim called Ave and his daughter and jokingly told them that he could 
get buried in Arlington National Cemetery when he died.
 
January came and so did another missed doctor's appointment. 
James and Katy were getting increasingly concerned as was Ave, who 
told Jim that anytime he wanted to bail out that she and the boys 
would come get him to a doctor, since he now was without proper 
meds and treatment nearly 4 months.

James called to consult  Dr.Dy who told James that he would still 
treat his father and James also asked about donating a kidney to his 
dad and Dr.Dy said that Jim could possibly get a transplant up to age
 70. He was only 66. James told his father who sounded interested. 
Arranging a time to pick him up was all that mattered. Jim told Katy 
he didn't want to come up to Pa and rathered go 

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to California with her, so she said she would arrange to see him the 
end of January and he could come to live with her and her husband at 
Camp Pendleton where she was willing to take him to any doctor he 
needed.
 
Katy too was concerned and began to plan a trip to see her father at 
the end of the month and spend a week with him. She still offered to 
take him back with her to California and looked up nephrologists there
 as well since Jim didn't want to live with James  as their house was 
too small. Ave was willing to find Jim his own place  but he didn't want
 to live alone, so alternatives were being looked into.
 
James and Ave began looking for a larger house. They also told Jim 
that he could get the treatment and recover in the Green Home in 
Wellsboro til he was able to travel again IF he got the surgery for the
 dialysis. 

Jim asked Katy that IF he didn't have the  dialysis started before she 
came to visit , if she would take him to a doctor there and get it done
 and Katy said of course she would. 

Jim finally realized why Karen wasn't bringing him to the doctors 
and decided it was time to bail. He continued to cook and clean the
 house while Karen was at work and talked with his family daily. He
 knew they were coming for him.
 
Jim let Karen know Katy would be coming with her husband and 
baby on Friday. 
Katy spoke with  her father for almost 1 hour on Sunday January 25th. 
Since Katy was coming Karen agreed to get Jim a bed.[he was sleeping
 on the floor!] Jim said that Karen also said she found some 
health/hopspice care nurses and was hiring one on Tuesday for him. 

Jim told Katy that when the worker came, if he could talk to them 
without Karen around that  he would ask her to take him to the 
doctors and also to get him oxygen as he was having trouble 
breathing since he was beginning to retain more fluids. He said he 
had to speak guarded when Karen was around so as to not get her
 angry at him. He was afraid of her and would not speak up if she 
was around.
 
Katy called her father back on Monday 1/26 and talked with him
 about 15 minutes. 
She said he was sounding congested and that maybe James and Ave
 should go ahead and get him earlier. Jim said that he would wait for 
the health care worker and ask her to take him to the doctors or the
hospital when Karen wasn't around. He said the case worker was 
supposed to come over Tuesday but that he had to be careful wha
the said because of Karen.
 
Tuesday there were no answers to the phone when Katy called and 
when James called, repeatedly. By evening Katy called James and said 
something was wrong. James said he too couldn't reach his father by 
phone. 

James told his mother, Ave and said that they needed to go to 
Alexandria right away. Ave checked the weather channel that showed 
a big storm for Wednesday but clear skies for Thursday, so it was 
decided to go to Va on Thursday and take Jim out of that apartment.
 
Wednesday afternoon,1/28/2009 Ave received a call from Jim's
cellphone. 

It was Karen, she said he was dead at 1:30pm and 
wanted no funeral or wake and so no one need come down. 

She was blunt, cool and when asked how he died. She said she had 
hired a hospice worker the day before and that Jim failed real 
suddenly and that he didn't want to talk to his children, when the
hospice worker asked him if he wanted to make any calls. 
That didn't sound right at all. 
 
If Jim knew he was dying, he'd had stayed on the phone with Katy 
til his dying breathe, so Ave knew something was definitely amiss.
 
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Karen said she would call back when details were worked out and 
that she was calling Katy. 

Ave told her not to call Katy, that she should do it since it was her 
daughter.
 
Karen called Katy anyway, before Ave could. She told Katy that 
her father passed and that she sent her some email pictures, so 
that Katy would not have to come out on Friday after all. 
 
Katy was in disbelief as Karen sounded methodical and emotionless 
describing before and after her father's death to her.

Katy checked her email and found "before and after" pictures of her 
father,showing that she did finally get him a bed and help, but since
 Katy didn't have a computer at home, viewed them on her cellphone
 internet.

Katy immediately sent the pictures to her mother Ave and called her.
 
Fortunately Katy's husband was home and able to help her as she 
nearly collapsed at the news.She recalled her Dad telling her on 
Monday that they were playing beat the clock as he was afraid of 
Karen and thought she was up to something. It seemed surreal.
 
Thursday 1/29/2009 Ave tried to call Karen to find out where 
the body was but got no answer.

She then called the police who informed her there was no calls to 
that address the day before and that they had no reports of any 
deaths. 

They suggested calling the Medical Examiner's Office, who also said 
they had no record of any deaths at that address and so suggested 
calling the two hospital morgues and again no word of where Jim was. 
The clerk asked if they were sure he was dead!
 
Hopes were then raised that perhaps Jim was still alive as Ave began
calling all the funeral parlors in the area.The first seven funeral parlors 
said they had no one by that name. 

The 8th funeral parlor Everly Wheatley at 1500 W Braddock Rd., 
Alexandria had him but the director asked to call back in a few 
minutes. When he returned the call he said it was unusual since 
Karen was sitting at his desk making arrangements and was 
accompanied by another person from the Air Force. He said there 
was no viewings and that Karen wanted the cremation as soon as 
possible, which was the following Tuesday. Permission could be 
granted by Karen for 15 minutes in a private viewing if family members
needed to say goodbye.
 
Ave contacted Jim's nephew to inform his side of the family. 

Dorothy and Kathleen, Jim's sisters then called Ave and asked for 
details.

They wanted to talk to Karen and the funeral parlor and arrange to
see their brother one last time. Dorothy didn't drive and Kathleen 
didn't do long distance driving so Ave agreed to take her sons and 
aunts to the funeral parlor and scheduled and appointment on 
Monday 2/2/09 ahead of the scheduled 2/3/09 cremation.
 
When they arrived for the private viewing, Ave and Kyle went in first 
and saw Jim had a twisted nose. It still had dried blood up in the 
nostrils as the pictures had shown which Karen sent to Katy.
The nose looked like it might be broken~!It was bent off the bone, 
the cartilage seemed disconnected. His face had dried tears and
 some bruising in the nostrils was lighter than shown on the pictures
 when enlarged.

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Ave opened the body bag to check his right hand because the 
pictures Karen sent to Katy showed marks on the knuckles. They
 looked like they were fresh scabs from punching something. 
Ave took a couple of close up pictures of the hand and of the face. 

Kyle then held his father's hand while Ave took pictures as a momento 
for Kyle. 

Next Kathleen and Dorothy went in and quickly came out to speak 
with the funeral manager Rhonda Yent asking how his nose got broken 
and were told he arrived that way. The family felt convinced the 
nose was broken since it was twisted abnormally and still had blood
clots up in the nostrils and so the family wanted to know if there was 
some foul play that may have contributed to his death,beyond the 
neglect. 

James went in to say goodbye to his dad and was overwrought. Kyle
also went back in for a minute and then Ave went back in to say her 
farewells and his sisters each went back in separately to say their 
farewells.
 
Kathleen & Dorothy told the funeral manager that something 
was wrong and so the manager said to go to the Police, that 
without a court order the cremation had to take place at Noon 
on Tuesday.
 
We went to the Alexandria Police Department and spoke with Officer
 McMullen who when he saw the photos of Jim  sent from Karen to 
Katy, told us to wait and that a detective would be coming into to 
interview each family member. 

Several hours later after speaking with 2 additional uniformed officers 
the family was told that the information would be given to the 
detective Tuesday after 2pm. The family complained that the 
cremation was scheduled for noon, so the police said to get a
 lawyer in the morning and file an injunction.It was after 10pm, 
Monday night.
 
Jim's sisters were exhausted and not feeling well so Ave and
 her sons drove them all the way back to Philadelphia and
 turned around and returned to Alexandria by early morning.
 On the way, Katy called and found a lawyer  online and called Ave. 

The lawyer said that even if an injunction were filed at 9am, it would 
take til 4pm before the judge would rule on it. He suggested going 
back to the funeral home and call 911 to ask for a forensics team  to 
come and take photographs before the cremation so they did. The 
911 operator reconnected the call back to the Alexandria Police Dept
 who refused to send a car out or to take pictures and said to find 
their own photographer and to go to the court for any further 
assistance.
 
Frustrated, James and Ave stopped at a 711 for directions to the 
court house. Kyle was asleep, since he drove all night back from Phili .
 A friendly black man outside the store with a bottle of beer began to
 talk to James and said that the Alexandria Police Dept would not help
 him years ago and that he one  time was tazered by them for being
 drunk and that the Alexandria Court didn't help him so he went to the
 Federal Courthouse and suggested we do the same. He gave us 
directions and we headed to the court. As we didn't know where we 
were or where the courthouse was, we took his directions and found
 the Federal Courthouse.
 
Outside the courthouse was the law offices of Land,Clark,Carrol,
Mendelson & Blair,PC. James and Ave went in and desperately told 
the story to F.Andrew Carroll ,III who immediately called District 
Attorney Randy Sengel who was there in 5 minutes!~!
 
Mr.Sengel then took two uniformed officers and went to Everly 
Wheatley and took the body of James Hurley to the Medical 
Examiner's office and an autopsy was performed on 2/4/09 and we 
are now awaiting toxolcology reports in 6-8 weeks.
 
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Karen M.Hurley 's refusal to meet with Jim's sisters and sons made 
her seem suspicious to all.
She had warned Kathleen Hurley to stay away when she had called
 her a few days earlier, before suspicions were raised and that she 
would call police if Kathleen came to see her, which was why Kathleen 
asked Dorothy and Ave and sons to go with her since she never met 
Karen in person and was alarmed at how Karen spoke to her 
concerning her brother's death. She wanted answers and by this time
 everyone else wanted answers, since Jim told everyone he wanted to
 get medical help but that Karen refused to get him the help he 
wanted since he didn't trust her doctors that he saw the summer 
before. 
 
The Hurley family left and went back to Pennsylvania after speaking 
with DA Randy Sengel & Atty Carroll, hoping answers would be 
forthcoming and that if anything was wrong with what happened to 
facilitate Jim's death that even if it looked natural because he was ill,
 if there could have been something done that would have prolonged 
his life so he could have gotten the needed medical attention. 
The family was aware of his condition since last summer when 
Jim first told everyone he needed a new doctor. Both he said and
 Karen said she would not bring him to any more doctors and that
 when she had made him appointments, she then refused to take 
him and he had to cancel them as he couldn't go on his own by bus 
since his legs were swollen and it was hard to walk. He said he would 
have gone by cab but Karen wouldn't leave him cabfare. 

The family believes this was at least negligence and callous on Karen's 
part since she alone would benefit by his death and didn't concern 
herself with helping him to live longer. It was very odd that he 
suddenly died only a day before his son was to come for him and 2 
days before his daughter was coming to see him and take him to a 
doctor.
 
Karen sent a box to Katy that had a bogus letter dated 1/27 typed 
online that was not in her father's words or name which was 
errant and an obvious attempt to cover up what had happened. 
 
We are now awaiting the results of the investigation into his death 
since Karen seems to have documented  her actions very carefully 
over a long period of time while most of what Jim told the family was 
by phone with few emails. 

There are many puzzle pieces, tiny and by themselves may seem 
insignificant but collectively paint the picture clearly as to what she
 did to him or caused to happen to him.

She knew since last summer that all she had to do was wait  for him 
to die by depriving him adequate medical care and allowing his body 
to toxify with renal failure.It would look natural to any investigator 
and benefit her by $100,000 to just let him sit home and rot to death.
 

Had she had health care workers in when he got ill and brought him to
 doctors that he could trust, she would have at least demonstrated 
care and concern for him. Instead she allowed him to deteriorate 
with no witnesses around as she wouldn't allow him any visitors for 
the last six months who would have certainly obtained help for him. 

He was afraid  of her and let her basically get away with it. He 
suffered needlessly as her healthcare plan could have covered his 
needs. He was afraid to speak up to doctors in her presence. 

Elder abuse & neglect is so wrong and we mourn that we weren't
 able to save him so at least want justice for him.He was more than 
her commodity that she isolated from his loved ones. 

He was a father and a grandfather that was caught in a internet 
scam of a marriage to be used for an insurance settlement in death 
that could have been prevented.

She kept him pent up as a commodity waiting to cash in on his death.
 
He never should have allowed her to insure him as Ave warned him 
6 yrs ago, as other women have done such to elderly men in poor 
health where many of them get away with such elder neglect and 
abuse.
 
Now, she carefully documented his refusal of treatment from her
doctor last summer of 2008. He told his family, that he didn't
 trust her doctors and that she did all the talking to them and
never  let him get a word in edgewise concerning his treatment so
 he said NO~ He wanted a second opinion and she pretended when she
took him to Dr.Dy but then refused to take him for the tests
Doctor Dy ordered and never brought him back for his follow up
appointment.

She refused to bring him to any more doctors and told him he could
 die in 6 months. She called us at the 3 month mark to tell us he
 was going to die and that she didnt have time to take him to
doctors or to deal with him, so she left him home to slowly die
 with promises that she would take him to the doctors in 2 weeks
but kept canceling the appointments or never made them. She
willfully contributed to his death and is now profiting by the
insurance money. She shouldn't be allowed to profit by causing
his early demise.

Legally she covered herself to appear  innocent, but to those of 
us who know from Jim firsthand, we know she caused his death~


 
 

Is it easy for a military big shot from the Pentagon to ‘murder’ elderly in Alexandria Va.?..~!

Although I am not afraid of any personal liability in this matter, because the investigation is technically still ‘open’, I have changed the name of the person I believe is guilty of this crime….BEVERLY is a fictitious name and the military branch she belongs to has been generically changed to MILITARY and her deployment location was changed to not indicate where she was deployed to when overseas as well as the other overseas  military place she was at with Jim [ whose name she changed while they were legally married!]  Other names are merely first names and last names have been omitted.

IF BEVERLY is ever prosecuted successfully, I will then reveal all the names involved here…

Well things have been upsetting so far.

No progress as the case is going no where.

The DA has a 100% conviction rating, which means short of a confession, he wont even file any charges against Jim’s internet MILITARY wife! 

So the lesson to be learned here is that  if you want to kill someone, do it in Alexandria Virginia and you will most likely get away with it. as long as you are patient and document it to look innocent!

Jim met her over 5 yrs ago on the internet on a chat site.

He was recently divorced, out of work on disability and living alone in senior citizen housing.  He had been an alcoholic and was on a DUI probation. She offered to even pay off his fines and clear the decks for him to eventually join her on her ‘web’…

He was a perfect candidate for this Pentagon Predator , who hated her own father for molesting her as a teen causing her to live on the streets before joining the military.

 She purposefully sought out someone on the internet,  she thought no one would care about as she was in her mid 40’s single and probably a dyke. Don’t ask, don’t tell!!!

She said she  wanted to change her name to make her look like a normal married woman,  so she told Jim and that she would pay him to be her internet husband~!

At  first, he didn’t even have to live with her, just go to a JP and she would pay him.. So he did, even though she already beat him up once when visiting him , leaving him with a broken collar bone. She later bought him some gifts and gave him some more money, so he never pressed  charges, since she was his benefactor.

10 months later she convinced him she would give him more money IF he would join her, so he did. That was the beginning of the end for him. 

 He then suffered more spousal abuse from her and his pride caused him to suffer in secret, til he began telling his kids about it a few years ago.

Society looks at domestic violence as a man abusing a woman. When it is the other way around, most law enforcement agencies don’t take it seriously and look down on the abused man – so much that most won’t report it or admit it…They just suffer it.. 

Other men will say they deserve it if they let a woman get over on them like that! Most men are embarrassed and ashamed and live depressed isolated lives til their abusers finish them off!

BEWARE OF INTERNET PREDATORS~!!

EVEN LONELY OLD MEN FALL VICTIM TO NARCISSISTIC BUSINESS WOMEN WHO WILL INSURE THEM AND THEN CAUSE THEM TO DIE~!

In recent times it has become more fashionable for women to kill their husbands ~ even more so to marry old men for a few years and insure them, and cause them to have an accident or aggravate their medical conditions to cause them to die prematurely..Then these merry widows cry all the way to the bank! Most get away with it.

Last year however I heard on the news in California how 2 women were successfully prosecuted for this scam and caused their unwitting husbands deaths…

For the last 2 yrs of his life, ”JIM”  sought a way be free from and to divorce this sociopathic woman and find some peace in his old age, but that wasnt to be had.

Usually it is women that are victims of domestic violence and many stay in abusive marriages because they are financially dependent on their abusers, as Jim now was!

Jim finally got the nerve up to consider seeking a divorce or at least a legal separation. He needed his medical insurance however for his diabetic supplies and doctor’s visits.

Jim had his daughter, look up Virginia divorce law for him and started saving every email his internet bride sent him, that would show the kind of mental abuse she was putting him through.

His daughter said that even if he didnt want to get the divorce, that he could live with her and her husband at their military base in California as his TRICARE would be acceptable there as well and he could get the now needed medical treatments he desired.

After 5 yrs of marriage to this woman who hated and abused him privately, but socially looked clean and innocent to others. 

Then his diabetes got worse and he was going into renal failure since last July08 and  BEVERLY kept him a virtual emotional prisoner in their apt. 

This way she didnt have to worry about any divorce settlement and wouldn’t be stuck supporting him if he left to live with his daughter.

She wouldn’t even leave him cabfare to go anywhere as he got dizzy often and had swollen legs ,so he couldnt walk far, unassisted, so he couldn’t go to doctors, unless she brought him. She openly told family members that  she was refusing to bring him anymore doctor’s appointments! 

They had been talking divorce for over several months prior to his last illness and he asked for a settlement to leave her and she said she would see him dead before ever giving him a penny.She meant every word!

When she was deploying for 6 months to WARZONE  in July 2007  for 6 months, almost a year prior to the onset of his kidney disease.

They signed mutual Wills in which he only read the clause she had pointed out that said his kids would get whatever he was entitled to as well as his personal effects. He didnt read the other parts that basically negated that. 

He said didn’t read til after she left for overseas duty, that the kids only get something, if she died over there, that he would become her heir, so he signed everything.

He got mad later on after reading the fine print realizing he was being deceived and started talking divorce via phone and email to her and it was decided they would wait til she returned but she made it clear she wanted nothing more to do with him and she was finished with him.

Her net worth was over a Million dollars due to her skills in investment and her tightwad spending habits and his own life insurance policies totalled over $100,000- She made over $100,000 a year and never bought a house and saved most of her money.

She had an investment portfolio for her retirement and as she nears her retirement, she was now ready to rid herself of the man she lured on the internet to become another of her investments, whose return was his life insurance. Before marrying him, she baited him with saying 1/2 of all she had would be his as well![like hell~!]

She tricked him into agreeing and signing all her papers, since she was going to a secure base as an administrator and was never to see any combat anyway.

He mused about being her benficiary but prayed for her safe return. Although she had once broke his collar bone and hit him other times, he didn’t think she would actually kill him, so gambled his time with her and remained in that abusive relationship in quiet desperation biding his time.

Her plan was set in motion even back then!

She found an old man in a chat room, lured him in to become her dependent, a way to vicariously punish her own father whom she claimed had sexually abused her as a teen and whose mother didn’t believe her and kicked her out at 16 yrs old.

She had mental problems and became sociopathic!

She wanted her parents acceptance but also revenge, vicariously through punishing and killing another old man.

She would  get even with her abusive father, by taking it out on Jim, the substitute whipping boy!

All she had to do was wait him out, when he developed the kidney failure, not obtain any dialysis or medical treatments for him and he was doomed to die within 3-6 months.

When we offered to take him for treatment she told us okay but told him she would sue him for abandoment and that he would get nothing from her unless he agreed to stay and not involve his family anymore.

He finally was going to accept our help when he began to feel sick, but then she pushed his death up sooner by harming him in ways that didnt show readily on autopsy and fell within the prognosis of her doctors, whom he said he didnt trust.

She refused to bring him to any more doctors for treatment after he went for a second opinion last August to our doctor. He was told to go over to the hospital up here for labs and return the next morning to our doctor but she didnt bring him for the labs and took him back to Virginia to die a slow painful death since she documented he would die within 6 months without dialysis and said he didnt want to return to her doctors, so they verified that.

She also made a staged  memorable commotion at her doctor’s office last July, pretending to plead with Jim to get the dialysis right away, while letting him know how he was going to be at her mercy from then on.

She then stalled his other future  medical treatments by cancelling appts and telling them, he didnt want to go even though he kept asking to go to the doctors. 

She told me by phone that she didnt have time to take him to doctors as she had to work, so I offered back in Nov2008 to help out.

She said he would have to decide and he later told me that she would cut  him off if he had us help him and he knew we couldnt afford to support him, so he was stuck at her mercy and whim.

Then when Katy decided to fly in from California to take him out of there and move him to her place, BEVERLY pretended she was getting him help so she would look like a dutiful wife and got a hospital bed the day before he died,pictures show she must have beat him up and confined him.

 Since Christmas, he told us he wanted to get the dialysis right and James even offered him a kidney in early January and called our doctor who said it was still possible as he was allowed to go onto the kidney transplant list up to age 70, but BEVERLY had lied and told him that the cutoff was 60 and that it was too late for him and that he was soon going to be with Jesus, sarcastically.

I have phone records of over 120 calls he made to us here that he discussed what she was up to and warned us that if anything happened to have it investigated. I told him that anytime he wanted to bail out of there, that we were 5 hours away and would get him out fast, but apparently not fast enough.

 He was walking and talking on Mon 1/26 and Katy told him she was flying in on Fri 1/30 to get him. Up til then he had been sleeping on a floor like a dog as BEVERLY and him had been fighting since she was in  WARZONE and more once she returned.

She is a cold blooded narcissist that claims she was molested by her father when she was a teen and her mother kicked her out to the streets. She must have been sociopathic even back then and perhaps her own mother recognized that in her when she kicked her out!

She finished school and joined the MILITARY and was married briefly 2 other times and when she met Jim online , he was 60 and she was about 40.

She talked him into getting married, saying she only wanted to change her name and paid him $50 a day to do so initially, until she conned him into going to OVERSEAS ISLAND  and began the abuse and mind games.

His diabetes had caused him to totally stop drinking and he was into health foods and when they returned they lived in Alexandria Va.

Since she was out most of the time, he took care of her cats and had his own computer, electronics and was basically kept never having to go out as all his food was delivered in . He found life tolerable while she was away.

She received an allotment of spousal support from the military for him, so he became her dependent which was what she had offered him in the beginning, but she cut off giving any money once he moved in with her.

Then he was stuck on her spider’s web with her, as his SSI was cut off and she discarded most of his belongings,including his furniture, so he had no way to start over without help.

They gave some of his things to James who was always ready to let him come and live with him, but James moved in with me and so Jim didnt want to cause any more problems so he chose to stay with BEVERLY for the time being until Katy said he could live with them.

BEVERLY abused him and even beat him up occasionally, [april 2003 she broke his collar bone and gave him a black eye!] but he wouldn’t call police, as he was too embarrassed and getting weaker, so he told Katy more about what BEVERLY was doing so Katy looked up Virginia divorce law and when

BEVERLY hacked his email, she read about their plan to take him to California for treatment and to live at Camp Pendleton with Katy and her husband David & their baby.

 BEVERLY deleted all his files holding the emails where she made threats against him that he was saving for a divorce lawyer to look at. She was good at hacking into other people’s email. She also changed computers annually so that hard drives were lost, always deleting or erasing his life as they went along. She also refused to call him by his real name and called him Patrick instead….

One of those emails however he sent to Katy and she has forwarded it to me to send to the Alexandria Police Dept along with the phone records, story and photos of his death.

Katy said she had the time and they had medical facilities out there that his Tricare card would be accepted for treatment.

BEVERLY knew Katy was coming so she then hired a hospice to come in to attend his death. In Virginia, if a person is under hospice care, the police do not have to be notified when they die~ another part of her plan.

BEVERLY told Katy after he died that he didnt like the hospital bed that was delivered on Tues 1/27 and that she was up all night with him as he struggled to get out of the bed and apt., so that she had to take away the electronic bed controls, put up the guard rails and even barricade furniture all around it and block the door so he wouldn’t go out!

Why, we can ask and we believe he was trying to get away from her!

He told me a while back if anything went wrong [like if she was trying to kill him] he would do whatever it takes to get the hell out of there and to a hospital. She wasnt letting him do that as she had too much to lose had he lived and separated from her.

She would have had to pay his support had he gone to Katy’s.

When the hospice arrived next morningTues 1/27, for the first and last time, he was already semi comatose from his night’s ordeal and since they hadnt met him before thought it was the natural progression of his kidney disease and one hour later he was dead.

BEVERLY[his wife] took before and after pics of his death. 

She told Katy he didnt want his oxygen, but he told Katy on Monday he was asking for oxygen as he ate alot of cough drops and was having a harder time breathing as he was swollen and scared that BEVERLY was up to something.

 In the pictures taken by BEVERLY, before and after, his nose was swollen and bloody which raised alarms in us, as we could also see that his right hand knuckles were bruised or scuffed and bloodied and his arms above the elbows were bruised in a matching pattern.

It looked as though she might have even sat on his chest, pinning him down maybe to shove a pillow over his face and maybe her palm into his nose thus flattening it, depriving him of needed oxygen long enough to make him semi comatose.

He was wiped clean but had some blood showing still when the photos were enlarged! 

He must have had quite a nose bleed, as one ear shows it was wiped, but not all blood removed,as did his nostrils and mustache had blood on them.

BEVERLYmay have  made a mistake of using a high resolution camera that when enlarged showed those details.

On the other hand, it may have been her way of bragging  about what she did, feeling confident that she had enough documentation in place to remove any suspicions the authorities may have had.

 If he had been in such bad shape with his kidney failure, he couldn’t have struggled as much as she claimed,  and wouldn’t have needed to have been restrained. How could he have gotten out of bed anyway? Why was he trying to leave? He already said he was afraid of her!

Why didn’t she call an ambulance and let him go to the ER for his nose bleed or — how novel– if he was dying ??

WE believe his kidney failure wasn’t necessarily as  accute yet, since he often fooled his doctors in the past with higher than normal numbers in his bloodwork.

We believe his nosebleed was deliberate and keeping his bed lowered and depriving him of oxygen, lowering the back of his hospital bed & restraining him,  caused his Congestive Heart Failure to worsen and that contibuted significantly to  his sudden death.

I even told BEVERLY that in November when she said he would be dying soon  that he always had higher stats in his blood work for many years that baffled doctors.

I offered her back then to help and she said I could take him away but then she told him that if he left, she would stop his support.

He was also missing his frontal lobe from his car accident many years ago and had a big cyst in his forehead where his frontal sinuses were so instinctively always protected his face!

Why did she barricade him & terrorize him & restrain him with such force as to bruise him?

The Insurance policy making her sole beneficiary for $100,000 was motive enough~

She also had his back of the bed lowered with no pillows, so with congestive heart failure, he would have had a hard time breathing and that would have stressed his heart more. [I have congestive heart failure and can not lay flat without a drowning feeling of suffocation~]

Anyway, BEVERLY told Katy & me that the hospice worker asked if he wanted to make any last calls, but said that he didnt want to talk to any of his kids, but in the pictures it shows the phone and internet were out of reach as well as the controls of the hospital bed and that the Oxygen was also out of reach.

Jim talked with us all , every day when she was at work~ and if he was really dying , that he would have at least have wanted to have been on the phone with his beloved daughter, Katy,  til his dying breath!

Katy talked to her fatehr 2-3 times every day up til Mon 1/26.

Karen sent the hospice worker’s phone number to Katy and she gave it to me and I called and asked the woman how he died.

The hospice worker told me he was laying still when she arrived, with his eyes open and never said a single word to her!

That meant BEVERLY lied about him saying ‘ No ‘ to the worker about making phone calls.

BEVERLY made the hospice think she cared about Jim but needed his body removed immediately without the police being notified. Again no red flags?

The other hospice worker also ’forged ‘the death certificate~ enabling his body to be removed without police notification, delivering it to the funeral parlor.BEVERLY also changed his clothes only a minute after his death..

Why we ask?

She then took more pictures of him and emailed them to Katy so she wouldn’t fly out on Fri 1/30~ The body was removed without any authority notifications. Reason enough wouldn’t you agree, if you planned on killing someone that is ~ ?

So just hire a hospice when you want to kill someone and make it look natural~!! They can help you get rid of the body, no questions asked…

The funeral director was told he had no family and that there were to be no announcements and that she wanted him cremated ASAP.

When I called the funeral director to ask if they had him there [ I called 8 funeral parlors looking for him] I was told my timing was odd as she was sitting before him when I called so he asked to call me back and he did.He said their was no viewing but we said we wanted to see him and were coming down there.

The only thing holding up the cremation, was that the death certificate was improperly signed by the hospice worker and not a doctor, so it had to be re-written and the hospice then had their on-call doctor sign th new cert based on his last doctor’s appt last July~ It was part of the plan as it enabled the body to be removed from the apt.

I brought James & Kyle and Jim’s sisters Kathleen and Dorothy to the funeral parlor on Mon 2/2 and they agreed his nose looked broken but that he arrived that way, so we notified police and had the DA go get the body for autopsy under suspicion of foul play.

Since he had many chronic medical problems which baffled doctors all his life and he was diseased, their autopsy showed no obvious foul play to cause his death.

His injuries could have been accidentally self inflicted.[???] Any explanation was acceptable to the police, since BEVERLY admitted nothing and had documents showing he would die without treatment and her claims that he didn’t want treatment!

They said the nose wasnt actually broken [even though the cartlidge was separated from his nose bone and it was twisted! They did toxocologies that will determine which organs failed first, but nothing is enough to charge BEVERLY with any wrong doing without witnesses.

 We wanted to visit Jim numerous times over the last six months, but he always said that BEVERLY was giving him a hard time and that he didnt want to make waves. He didnt count on her getting violent with him, as she must have the night before he died. I think he thought he could get away if it got that dangerous, never expecting to be barricaded in a room in a hospital bed, unable to escape!

When his phone didnt answer on Tue 1/27, Katy became alarmed, as her last call was Mon 1/26 when he said he was afraid of BEVERLY and that she was up to something and that waiting for Fri 1/30 when Katy was coming was like playing ‘Beat the Clock’.

He had asked Katy that when she came that he wanted her to take him to the hospital to get his dialysis started, since BEVERLY wouldnt take him. Katy agreed to do so.

Jim said he couldnt speak or say what he wanted in front of Karen as she intimidated him . He hoped she would leave him alone long enough with the hospice workers when they were to come, so he would ask them to take him to the hospital.

He never got that chance as BEVERLY took off work and did all the talking for him to them.

Katy called me and James to go get him Tues 1/27 night but it was snowing heavily and the weather forecast said it was going to snow all day Weds 1/28 so we decided to go Thurs 1/29 to get him to a hospital, as Katy couldnt get there before Fri 1/30.

WE planned on getting him to an ER in Alexandria and that as soon as he could travel to bring him up here for initial treatment and then have him fly back to California with Katy when he was able.Katy was then going to change her flight to here.

Weds 1/28 his cell phone called me and I answered and it was BEVERLY telling me he was dead and that we didnt need to come for him! I told her we were coming on Thursday and she said she ‘knew’…She also called Katy, sent her email pictures and told her disturbing details.

I notified his family and they said they hadnt talked to him since Christmas and they wanted to see his body for closure,so I picked them up in Phili and we all went down to the funeral parlor for a private viewing where we saw it was obvious to us she had done something to him but he was scheduled for cremation the next day, so we had a hard time getting that stopped and told them what we suspected and that it would look almost natural since he did have kidney disease but we suspected she had partially suffocated him and that he cut his knuckles trying to defend himself.

We told the Police of the blood in his nostrils and his nose being flattened out looking like it was broken.

In the very least, it was long term elder abuse and neglect on BEVERLY’s part, in facilitating his death for the insurance policy.

She planned it all out very well and who knows who, she may have paid off, since she is a high up in the Pentagon~ a LT Col in the MILITARY in their xxxx  dept.

By him not getting treatment, he died far sooner than he would have naturally and she gets $100,000 for it, so had no reason to prolong his life since they couldnt stand each other!

I warned him 6 years ago that she was dangerous and he was a fool to trust her, but he thought he had it under control. I even told him never to let her insure him as she would probably kill him…because here she was a professional, successful  and 20 yrs younger than he. It made no sense she would want to marry such a poor old man from the internet.

Now it actually happened and she is getting away with it!

 That prevents us from having any closure.

It nags at us, while she- the merry widow cries all the way to the bank! I wish had it had to happen that it would have happened in NYC ,where something more would have been done about it by the police.

The Alexandria Police seemed to have been dragging their heels when they heard she was a Lt.Col and he was socially a nobody. So ‘nobody’ deserves justice?

Our children and his sisters call me crying and demanding we do something but what can we do? I am only the former wife who divorced him and even took him to the plane when he went to live with BEVERLY 10 months after they were married on paper… he said he was going there to get an annulment but never returned.

She was a black widow and he got bit and devoured.

Who cares? Can it happen to anyone else??……..

She isolated him for the last 5 yrs from his family. She demeaned and persecuted him and only allowed him to visit his daughter once and sons 3 times. He leaves behind 5 children and 11 grandchildren , 2 sisters , a brother, his former wife and friend and other relatives. They cared and want justice for what happened to him, but in Alexandria Virginia, that may never happen..

Can a person lose their salvation??

Looking at it from various perspectives.. You have to consider where you are at when considering this. From a human point of view, you have ‘free will’ and choose daily whom you will serve, whether it be yourself, others, others with a motive[selfish reasons] , others out of love or concern. There is a way that seems right to a man… so we are told that even a ‘bad father’ can give good things to his children, With that said, you meet people who may not believe in God, yet are humanly generous & decent.

When thinking from a worldly perspective you may find a mental argument considering that if there is a God, that it would be most unfair of Him to condemn such ‘nice’ people to an eternal hell…or that ‘if there is a God in Heaven, so and so would have to be an angel…and so on when referring to a deceased loved one and not having any knowledge of the Holy One.

Then you have those who claim to ‘believe in God’ and may have been brought up in a certain culture or religion, follow all the pre-set rules and behave accordingly, outwardly~ yet their actions, demonstrate they are only holding a form of religion while denying its power by their very daily actions…Example a ’slum lord’ that through greed causes human suffering yet may be a pillar in his so called church…Or perhaps a person who knows there is a God but limits his service to God to what is self serving at the same time.. sharing the throne as he is ruled by his own wicked heart and not trying to learn what is pleasing to the Father, rather trying to pay his way in…Ex. Mafia killer who donates heavily to a church…[extreme example I know but made for a point]

Then you have a person, who knows there is something bigger than himself out there [God has put eternity into the hearts of men..] that may not belong to any set religion, but almost instinctively chooses to do good for others and will often put him/herself at a disadvantage by choosing to do what is best for someone else, whether it be family or stranger…Such a person would be like the Good Samaritan, perhaps, that cares for the needs of others. There are all sorts of people out there and they have all sorts of things going on inside them that motivates their actions.

 WE are told not to judge by appearances, since we can not always discern another’s motives..That is why the Holy Spirit searches the hearts and minds of men….Often the person who truly serves God by his/her selflessness, may be obscure in the crowd and the person you would least expect.. That is why the Jews didnt receive Jesus.. They expected an omnipotent leader to emerge as a king and destroy their oppressors…but that wasnt how he came and he was for the most part rejected, a man of sorrows , aquainted with grief, while still doing miracles that drew attention to his cause in demonstrating how we should seek the Father and how to please Him, culminating in his sacrifice on the cross…

We too must pick up our cross daily… and if we are prospering on earth for what we do for God, doesn’t that make us like a hireling, since we might care more for the outward show and glory here instead of heaping up our rewards in heaven? So what must a man do to be saved and can we lose our salvation? Since the heart of man is deceitful, desperate to be corrupt, we are challenged daily by our circumstances to choose whom we will serve and how we are to justify our own actions.

We tend to blow it and make wrong choices, if not everyday, at least at times that will plainly reveal that we are in sin and not perfectly behaving within the will of God. The Jews had it all written down, just needed to obey, as to what God wants and yet even with the blessings they received, they were not content and sought after the Baals and subsequently were punished for many centuries..

The example shows us that we can be chosen by God , yet still chastized when we do wrong and sometimes die in our sins..After all when going by the Law, guilty of one is the same as being guilty of all…All have fallen short of the glory of God. The Spirit of Antichrist has been around from the beginning~ beguiling Even & Adam in the Garden all the way down to every person ever born…Satan is evil and infects mankind by whispering into our ears and offering foul solutions to life that will not please God.

Funny that human anatomy gives us two ears…not that either is good of bad, but that there is two…like the choices we get- choose daily , right or wrong…and we get two eyes..seeing a choice in everything we come across.. dark or light, good or bad… BUT we get one mouth..and out of the mouth comes the culmination of what we think…out of the mouth the abundance of the heart speaks.. We are given one heart– cant serve two masters- love one, hate the other.. WE are given one stomache that digests whatever we put into it, although some things nourish, while others make us sick… WE are wonderfully made! Still we are housed in one body while on earth and when one part of the body suffers, the entire body suffers, so becoming of sound mind means certain criteria we have to establish in our own hearts and adhere to..

Do not be double minded as such receive no blessings from God. Take every thought captive, holding fast to that which is good- Learning to please the Father. To be greatest of all when reaching heaven, become a servant of all here on earth, laying down life for a friend and putting the needs of others before your own.

Commit your way to the Lord and your plan will be established. Choose this day whom you will serve. Today is the day of salvation, as the Holy Spirit draws you into the presence of God, surrender your unbridled will to Him and taste and see that the Lord is good. Man makes alot of mistakes during his life time since now we only see in part, but it is promised that later we shall see fully and understand… Jesus is the rock of our salvation.

What does that mean to you? Are mere words a plan for war? Will wickedness deliver those who are given to it? How can you become firm in faith and be assured of your eternal reward? What tightrope must you walk if any, to be assured of the mercy of God?

JESUS~ He came to show us the WAY but many dont look at all that really involves. Most can plainly see that as a man he did good deeds and some miracles and allowed himself to be martyred for the cause, so to speak. Even demons believe~!

 But what was it that made Him so special to be called the Messiah or only begotten Son of God… I mean, humanly speaking some called him a drunkard and He even demonstrated anger and violence when He chased the money changers out of the temple…So what is it about Jesus that makes anyone choose to follow Him and at what capacity? Are they mimicking a good man and have a masochistic streak that makes them want to be martyred? Even religions professing other dieties do as much , like a buddhist monk set afire to make some point…

What is it about Jesus that sets Him apart from all the others out there , like Mohamad or Buddha?You need first to be convinced in your own mind but it can be argued that Muslims and Buddhists[and others] are similarly persuaded to lay down their lives for their beliefs~

Nimrod was a mighty king in Babylon and he persuaded the known world to follow him to the point of total unity~! People saw him as right when he shot the arrow into the heavens to snot the real God and show he can do as he pleased. No wonder God didn’t destroy mankind, rather He scattered their speech so they could no longer fellowship in wrong in unity but were dispersed…and why?

Another  reason is 1/3 of the heavenly host were cast down to earth and these wandering spirits have thoughts that oppose God so they will be separated from Him eternally into a place where they can enjoy their thoughts which are evil and cause suffering. They are spirits and know alot more about the spirit world and have been observing and manipulating mankind from the beginning .

Not satisfied with the judgement they received in being cast out of heaven, they seek to cull out all from God’s creation that embrace such thoughts..

They didnt create mankind. They know God did create mankind for His glory and they HATE God, so they want to destroy anything of God’s while they are loose and wandering so they plot evil and plant it into the thoughts of the minds of men.

Starting at birth, they whisper thoughts into man’s mind , right alongside the blessed and good thoughts that also are being placed for consideration into man’s mind. Mischief is bound up [trapped] into the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline [thy rod and staff comfort me] will drive it far from them…[Train up a child in the way that they should go and when they are old they will not depart from it]

They even infect into man’s mind, ways to twist the scriptures and cause child abuse, by the lack of knowledge people possess when reading scriptures. They twist the scriptures to make God seem unfair or harsh, when in reality He is Love…real  love. The evil  ones, tell a man’s mind that you must ‘beat’ a child, when God’s rod and staff comfort us, try telling a child who is beat with a rod that it is of any comfort!!

Not to say we aren’t to be chastized or that a child should never be spanked, but the object of a painful punishment is to challenge the thoughts of the child to seek better choices, godly ones.. not to foster contempt and future revenge on others, but repentence from the misdeed and a clearer choice to want the rewards of doing what is right.

Spiritually we get spanked when as children of God we do wrong, but never with His intention to do us harm, rather His plans for us are always GOOD.

God is good. God is Love. God is willing that none should perish.. God wants all to come to repentence.[that is to choose right..His ways.. over wrong.. the devils ways] Devils will eventually be thrown into a prison – lake of fire- that they can continue living in but can no longer recruit follwers to…

We are here on this earth for a temporary amount of time, in bodies that are corruptible and will die.The spirit of the soul placed within our beings is eternal but will be judged by the choices it makes that are planted within our hearts and minds.It is a war within our minds to choose each day whom we will serve.

Since man tends to judge by outward appearances, is visual as some say, it is often negated or ignored that there is a spiritual world or dimension out there that we belong to, since we dont see it readily, nor do we know our own personal futures as we are trapped into the cares of the world around us, needing food, shelter and clothing and to do things that we can obtain such with.

Evil spirits readily speak to our minds continually, suggesting ways in which we can make this world our home and that the afterlife means little, so that we then tend to make ourselves as our own gods and stray away from seeking the Holy One who has another place prepared for us that is in eternal glory.

Such evil spirits, when allowed to influence a man’s mind continually, will bring about an imbalance in the man’s ability to make choices as confusion and chaos siege a man’s mind. At such a place of being so infected with wrong, the man becomes mentally imbalanced, runs on emotions and can become a mental patient. This is spiritual oppression.

If that continues to where a man then acts on such oppressive thoughts to where they control his mind  with such manipulation that the man loses his sense of free will, the person can become possessed by  those spirits and wreak havoc in the  lives of others and become a destroyer or murderer.

The Holy Spirit is departed from such a person, as they reject all that is good and holy . Such a person still can be delivered and spared by God, so there is hope for all who worry about their own salvation.. which  may be why we are told to work out our salvation with fear[of displesing God] and trembling.[knowing it is only by His grace we are saved and not by our works, lest any man should boast!]

We can not see it or comprehend what God has prepared for those that …love…Him… So how do we love Him? How do we know what He wants? How do we serve Him? How can we be sure of what we are doing and if it is right or wrong or if it will prosper us to endure to the end and thus be saved from it all?

The righteous can fall 7 times but the wicked only once.. so we know there is room for error on our part, but as for the cursed, their future is secure in that they know they are going to hell and have nothing to gain by repentence, so in their evil thoughts seek to take along as many as they can to go into that eternal damnation…

[Woe to you Destroyer, you who have not been destroyed, when you cease to destroy, you will be destroyed..]

The Holy Spirit of God is in total unity with God. The devil is the author of confusion and chaos. God is peace . The devil is not, nor are his followers who will bite and devour one another and any they can prey into, like lions culling out a flock.. ripping them apart and eating them…

But to all who received Him, who believed in His name, He gave POWER to become children of God.

Those who do not have any love for the Truth or God could care less about salvation or eternity.

Such are narcissists and sociopaths that have NO conscience. Hard to imagine such people, but they do exist! Murderers such as serial killers and dictators who oppress their people and have little regard for human life of those they hate .{ex.Hitler & Jews]

Such serve only themselves and feign concern for others , only as they can profit by them or off them. Such people can kill with no remorse and are known even to non believers as evil and dangerous.

They are those who willingly destroy and kill for any agenda that they embrace[ such as terrorists and suicide bombers] Those who possess a conscience that leans towards doing good and are concerned over right and wrong as the lost who need to be found and they are the ones one might say are ‘predestined’ to be saved as the Father gave such to the Son.

[ All that the Father gives me WILL come to Me and him who comes to Me , I will NOT cast out.'] so there is a degree of predestination, but consider the race is not for the swift…

A person can prepare and practice for a race, but still not win it..so there is more involved than just predestination. A long distance runner can go so far and then lose endurance and quit the race, thus never to be crowned a winner… so we can not merely say we are predestined to be saved and going to heaven no matter what..

We have to choose, be committed and do the works that are given us to do.Not that the works are a measurement of our salvation, but that while doing works, we become living epistles and can show others to likewise become aware of the great love the Father has for us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us and we now must pick up the torch and carry on as He did .

 The Holy Spirit puts the desire to do right, into our hearts. We need to listen to the Holy Spirit and choose to serve God. We need to want do do the works He did and as we try and learn what is pleasing to the Father, we must choose to reject what caused us to sin against Him.

We must not be those who lead others astray, nor become instruments of evil in the destruction of mankind. We falter.We get led astray at times. We make wrong choices or react wrongly to circumstances.

When in the Lion’s Den, we may freak out- or- we can stand firm and rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that the one who can destroy our bodies can not destroy our spirit…If anything we should fear only Him who can destroy both body and spirit…

Seeing the heavenly battle, knowing our enemy, not being ignorant of the devil’s devices…how do we know what to do?….By taking heed according to the Word of God that was made flesh and dwelt among us~ Studying the Word ~ not from a humanly beneficial point of view~ but looking for that eternal point of view~ God’s view~

Take every thought in your head  that enters your mind captive! Consider if they are good and will have a good outcome and what your motives are in embracing such thoughts.

Do not be double minded…How? Dwell on whatever is good, holy and acceptable and so on..

Put on the whole armour of God, that is to choose to follow Him, not religion [as religion is full of evil deceiving spirits, a haunt of demons~] but become assured in His promises.

He is faithful when we are not!!.. His ways are not our ways~!!… Samson was a loser to his custom tailored devil Delilah~ he was imprisoned, treading out the grain on a chain…yet when you might have counted him out of the race….he was able to do more service to God at his death than in all his life!.. so dont get discouraged by what you may have already done. Spilled water can not be gathered up again by man.. only by act of God…

That sinner on the cross, beside Jesus, admitted he deserved death according to all he had done in his own life, but before his death saw the glory of God in Jesus and that Jesus was innocent , so he testified to the more evil man on the other cross to stop mocking God through Jesus…

That man was forgiven eternally and rewarded with paradise. Just as Jesus spoke about the workers in the vineyard that some come in at the last hour and are paid the same as those who worked all along…God WILL have mercy on whom He will have mercy.. So we are not to judge by appearances but with RIGHT Judgement… There is only one Judge eternally..That is the one we are to fear and respect… That is the one who seeks our love and loved us before we were even born~!

BE asssured of the Father’s true  love for you.. He was never a cruel taskmaster as the devils would have you think! He loves you and wants you to love Him and He is able to hold you up in the hour of your greatest trial. Before you even enter into trials and temptations.

He already has prepared a way for you to escape the wrath to come…Jesus said His yoke was easy. A yoke is your burden, what you carry with you through life, whether in bondage like Samson or in peril like Job ~ it is custom tailored to clean out the impurities buried deep within your heart so that like dross being fired out of the silver, makes the silver pure, it is then fashionable into a vessel fit for honor..

That honor is eternal life with Jesus~ You are saved. It can be coined to be predestined, by those who can’t touch your spirit.That is the demons who influence your thoughts with hate that they can not destroy your eternal spirit and that God is upholding you in this life.

You are saved and no one can snatch you out of HIS hand…but the evil thoughts of demons may suggest for your pollution that you can do as you please which equals embracing their foul thoughts and leading you back into sin..

Each one is lured and enticed by their own desire[ the part of your mind that considers some earthly profit and momentary pleasures that displease God] that when conceived[ that is taken into account and decided on within your mind, to embrace and become one with= spiritual fornication= choosing what God said not to] gives birth to Sin[ which , when full grown[becomes your nature] brings for death[because you chose not to follow the Holy One but instead followed the lusts[enticements] of your own heart.

To be such a person, means you reject what God would have you do and willfully choose to do wrong. A person who willfully chooses to do wrong, without conscience, does not even care what God wants.

Such a person has a seered conscience and has rejected the Holy Spirit~ blasphemied in the sence of not listening to or yielding to what is right and noble in God’s way~ and a child of God, does not behave this way. As such the child of God does not sin.[1Jn3:6] but is remorseful and repents from such sins and then goes on in the race to endure to the end.

 The devils would remain as the accuser of the brethren, heaping guilt and self condemnation and other negative oppressing thoughts, to cause you to embrace own and give up on the mercy of God.That is their job~ to bring about your destruction.

 They are liars from the father of lies- satan- and will never tell you the truth, but are there to torment you into despair and doubt. They wiull encourage you to do evil things that do not please God. They seek to delude and deceive you. Look how such devils convince a godless people to become terrorists and suicide bombers, how their god  is nothing  more than an angel of light masquerading as god, giving them a form of  religion…  one of hate, revenge, power and elitism! You know who they are!

Doubt entering your mind is thought that comes from an evil spirit and a person who yields to Doubt will be led into captivity.

There are spirits , biblically known as Legion[for we are many they boast] with many traits, custom tailored to lure and entice you out of the way to bring you to ruin.

Not to say God can’t save you from them, but they can cause you to detour and take a harder path in life that is less glorifying to your Heavenly Father…

Remember those who lead many to righteousness will shine like the stars in heaven~! Heaping up spiritual rewards is what we are to be seeking to do…trying to please the Father…while our tormentors try earnestly to put our lights out and discredit and ruin us, trying to make fools out of us.

WE dont want to be those who are ashamed when judgement comes, not that we wont be saved, but that we will see all the time we wasted in idle pursuits where the devil got some browny points in being able to further disrespect God. Even the Prodigal makes it through~ God can save to the uttermost those who come to Him through Jesus…

 When giving into an evil, religious type spirit of despair, doubt or guilt ~ remember that God still loves you~~LOVES~~ not in the human conditional way, but in His way- Jesus is the way~ so REJECT AND RENOUNCE ALL EVIL THOUGHTS THAT CAPTIVATE YOUR HEART AND MIND~ Which is to REPENT- reject evil and commit to do right, according to HIS Word…

You are already empowered to do so through Jesus’ NAME…which is to reckon and decide that He is the way, the truth and the life and no man can come to the Father except by HIM…

Under no other name given among men can a man be saved. He is faithful even when we are not. Jesus once said ” O you faithless generation!’…fully aware of the hold the enemy has on man collectively, so that Jesus came to seek out the lost, individually healing people to demonstrate the power the Father has given to Him..

All power honor and glory belong to Jesus as our Lord and Savior, Mediator between God and Man, Prince of Peace, Lord of Lords~ over all. Never doubt your salvation.Flaunt it!! When the devil inspires doubt, despair or confusion or guilt~ RENOUNCE and REJECT it…

Guilt comes from the devil to bring about surrender and live condemned on earth embracing damnation, calling God a liar in that He cant save you that you are too far gone etc, which in effect is calling God a liar and leads to blasphemy of the Holy Spirit and hell.

Conviction comes from the Holy Spirit to bring about your redemption and to steer you away from the errors of your way…Never to condemn you but to bring you to repentance and into the eternal security of God’s love for you so that you can tell others of the wonderful love of the Father and be his witness.

Its not about works, but then again faith[cornerstone of trusting in Jesus] without works [still in bondage to sin] is dead [ because you cherish iniquity in your heart rather than God- who shares the throne with no one- light cant fellowship with darkness]…So be at peace with your maker, your Lord and Savior, enjoy salvation – your freedom from damnation and don’t let the devil steal your joy as you meet various trials as they only serve to make you stronger and more dedicated in your service to your Creator.

So it is not very easy to lose your salvation, because so long as it is day, the Holy Spirit will continue to draw you back into the light of God’s love and provision for you. If you were among those ‘destined’ for destruction your conscience wouldn’t be tugging at your heart the way it does…

GBU~! Ave

James Patrick Hurley Sr., died suddenly Jan 28, 2009 in Alexandria Va.

James Patrick Hurley Sr
[born 11/25/1942] deceased [1/28/2009] age 66
Survived by internet met friend & business arrangement wife of 5 years,  Karen Hurley,who kept him home during his illness without medical treatment til his death, since   he agreed to be insured for $100,000.- not expecting such lack of treatment to terminate his life so soon!
 
Born in Philadelphia Pa  to
Wallace Hurley [pre-deceased March 1990]and
Dorothy[nee O'Hara}Hurley [pre-deceased December 1996]
Brother of :
Dorothy Hurley Nottingham of Philadelphia,
Charles Hurley of New Jersey,
Kathleen Hurley of New Jersey and
Daniel Hurley[pre-deceased May 18th 1989]
Survived by his 2nd wife Ave Hurley, divorced in 2001  and current 3rd wife of 5 years, Lt. Col. Karen M.Corrente Hurley,USAF, whom he met in a chat room on the internet and agreed to become her military dependent through a business marriage 5 yrs ago as she told him they both would profit by the arrangement… well at least she did.

After 10 months of being married on paper,living seperately,  he joined her in Guam and remained with her in Alexandria, Virginia upon their return in 2005.

He was diagnosed with kidney disease in July of 2008 and advised to get dialysis or die within 6 months. He sought a second opinion by his former family doctor, but his wife was too busy and took him back home without further testing or treatment, stating she had no time for him. He never was taken to any  other doctors but managed to stay alive beyond his wife’s expectations she said back in November 2008 to his family.

He then sought help from his children and planned on leaving his wife on Jan.30th 2009 when his daughter Katy was flying in from California, to visit him and take him for dialysis and treatment. His daughter was then prepared to take him back home with her to California.

He died suddenly on Jan.28,2009 and his wife called family to say he was dead, so not to bother coming as there was no funeral planned, but a cremation to take place and later interment in Arlington National Cemetery.

Pennsylvanian family members collectively went to Alexandria to have a private viewing of his body and upon discovering injuries on his face, arms and hands, notified authorities and an autopsy was performed.

Not surprisingly, the autopsy report  showed his death was attributable to his kidney disease [especially since he was not brought for any medical treatment for over 6 months prior to his death, as Karen said she 'didnt have time for him'..] and not as any direct result of  the unexplained injuries he sustained prior to death, [ which contributed but were not attributable]although they may have contributed to his demise, there was no evidence linking anyone to foul play, so no charges were filed, based on Karen’s  military status  and Jim’s lack of status~

We had hoped DA Randy Sengel would have dug into this and exposed the truth and prosecuted her, but his investigator simply did his job to the bare minimum requirement and since evidence could be ignored or explained away, no real effort was put forth to bring justice to the matter…

Mr.Hurley is  survived by :

 
Mary Jane Hurley, daughter from first marriage to Mary Thompson Hurley in 1969
Five Children from his second marriage to Ave Cosgriff Hurley, Mansfield Pa., 

Sharran Elizabeth Hurley Shelton,[Phoenix Az.],
Thomas Joseph Hurley,[Phoenix Az.],  
James Patrick Hurley Jr.,[Mansfield Pa.],
Kyle Francis Hurley, [Mansfield Pa],
Kathleen Dorothy Hurley Bowman, [Camp Pendleton Ca.,]

His Grandchildren include:
Brenton Shelton,
Elizabeth Shelton,
Danyael Shelton,
Rachael Shelton,
Zacharay Shelton,
Isabella Shelton,
Alyssa Shelton,
Nathanael Shelton,
Sidney Carillo,
Abigail Hurley,
Madeline Elise Bowman

and numerous nieces , nephews, grandnieces and grand nephews
 
Jim was raised in the Philadelphia vicinity and New Jersey.

He entered the US Army in 1959 and served one term in the 82nd airborne.
He was married 3/17/1969  to Mary Thompson and had one daughter MaryJane in June 1969 and later divorced.
He was a member of the Forever Family, an  Evangelical Outreach from 1973-1976 partaking in street evangelization and bible seminars.

He was effective in leading over 200 people to accept salvation through Jesus Christ by preaching to them, praying with them and sharing bible studies.

During his tenure with the Forever Family and later the Church of Bible Understanding, he was a Center Leader in Reading Pa in 1974, a fellowship leader in Atlantic City 1975 and transferred to Philadelphia where he was a Fellowship Leader and acting Center Leader til late Spring of 1976.
Jim loved searching out the mysteries of the Bible and was devoted to his studies concerning Jesus, spending years compiling bible studies.
He moved back to Reading Pa in 1979-80 and did more evangelical work in a Mennonite Prison Outreach Program, before returning to Philadelphia where he was a general contractor and painter by trade, as taught to him by his father.
In November of 1981 he moved to Staten Island to work as a general contractor doing home and business renovations and maintenance.

In September 1984 he returned for a year to live and work in Philadelphia before going to Painted Post NY in January 1986 to get married.
He was later married  to his long time girlfriend, Ave Cosgriff, on Jan 7,1986 , in Painted Post Courthouse, NY and later relocated with his family, to Hornby NY, living on a farm and continuing his biblical studies..
He worked briefly for Toshiba Corp. in Elmira in 1987 and returned to private contracting work from 1987- 1993 and retired.
He and his family moved to Elmira in April 1988 and then to Towanda Pa from June1988-July 1989 where he worked part time doing handy man work and renovating victorian homes.
He and his family then moved to Knoxville, Pa., from October 1989 to June 1999 moving to Westfield Pa to continue his biblical studies and other persuits.
He was later divorced in October of 2001, while he resided in Westfield Pa., til 2003 when he met a woman online and entered into a business arrangement to become her military dependent   by marriage invitation of Air Force Lt Col Karen M. Hurley, on April 2, 2003, in Painted Post NY.

 

Later on moved to Guam in January 2004 til 2005 returning to  Alexandria Va.,with wife Karen and they remained there  til his death.

Capitol Hospice company , who were hired the day he died, were very helpful in signing his death certificate, so he could be removed immediately to the funeral parlor for  immediate cremation without having to deal with police.

 The only glitch was that the death certificate needed to be signed by a doctor and not the hospice worker,  so cremation was delayed til they refiled a new certificate .Family members became more concerned and wanted a full investigation.

Family members  located the body, notified authorities who immediately removed the body to the Medical Examiner’s office to do an autopsy and toxocology to determine the cause of death, which was expected to be due to renal failure since Jim didnt receive the needed treatments to save his life.

 Investigation into his death was only circumstantial with the absence of any witnesses, so no charges were filed. The County Attorney had taken charge of the investigation, with the  raised suspicions over injuries he sustained shortly before his death, but with lack of evidence, the matter is closed.

Jim was still in communications with his family up to 2 days before his death, when his phone was no longer answered, raising alarm by his children causing them to take a trip on Jan.29th ahead of their sister who was planning to arrive on 1/30 in Alexandria.

The winter snow storm which began Tuesday 1/27 through Weds 1/28 prevented them from arriving on Wedsnesday when he died.

 Had it not snowed so heavily, his sons had planned to take him to a local hospital to obtain needed medical care he was deprived of at home by his wife. The family considers this a very big tragedy as he was so close to getting the help he needed.

I knew Jim for almost 34 years spending a good portion of that time together and although we divorced in Oct 2001 , remained in close contact til January 2005, when I brought him to the airport for his flight to Guam where he said he was going to ask for an anulment and return to Pa., but he decided to remain in Guam and divorce once he returned to the states. He kept in contact with his children while in Guam and contacted me.

Jim and I remained  friends and in communications until his death.

I dont know how to convey my thoughts and feelings on receiving news of his death because of the circumstances surrounding it, were my greatest fear have been realized , that when he married this younger woman, that if she insured him, that he would die and now he has.

His sisters, my sons and my daughter as well as myself are now fully convinced that foul play was involved, but since his ‘wife’ documented and carefully implemented her plan to keep him away from medical treatment and remain within the diagnosis given last summer, that he died  of natural causes,  I hope that nothing hidden will not be revealed and justice is still be served, if not in this life, then in the next!

I was initially sorry for his current wife’s grief with this loss, but after seeing the pictures and hearing her account of the night before his death, I am sure she will enjoy the insurance money more than she ever enjoyed his company. I warned him not to have life insurance.. too tempting for some people…

I feel a great loss for losing the one  man who had the greatest impact on my life and who I thought would be around for many years to come.

His death saddens me greatly and is hard to process as it doesn’t seem real, yet, but knowing it was orchestrated, causes more stress to all our family, for not getting there in time to rescue him or at least say goodbye.

He was released to be cremated and was interred in Arlington Natl Cemetery on March 4, 2009 with a marker only calling him James Hurley husband of Lt.Col Karen M Hurley, with no mention of his children, which we see as more spite.

 I wish to offer our personal congratulations to his ‘widow’, Karen, who said she’ took care of him’,  until his death after the onset of possible renal failure and injuries he sustained the night before he died .

 I can’t imagine how hard it is to live with someone who is slowly dying from lack of medical attention and do nothing about it except cheer them on to die…

I can’t imagine doing nothing  and letting such a thing happen.

I guess it takes all types of people and Jim said she was strong and unforgiving. He was right, dead right~

Jim and I spend many years studying the bible together, raised five children together, so it is hard for me to believe he is gone.

It is one thing to be divorced from Jim, but hard to imagine being his widow.

I will mourn him for the rest of  my life, so will his children.

Funny thing is if we didnt go there, he would have been cremated and buried and no one ever would have known that he lived or died in Alexandria.

In any event, he is at peace now and away from the stressful circumstances he endured.

God bless you Jim, may you rest in peace!

Love always ,

Ave

The Great Counterfeitor~!

As the great counterfeitor, satan was furious at the Tower of Babel when he had all the people united with Nimrod to defy God by not only building the Tower against God’s will , but in daring to shoot an arrow up towards Heaven, symbolically wanting to slay the Lord…So because it was ordained before time that Israel was to be a nation of God’s people and were yet to be born, the Lord scattered their tongues, breaking their communications and causing division, allowing time to intercede and his nation to be born.

In Sarah was the promise, her seed not Hagar’s! Ishmael sought the inheritance and has been after it ever since.His descendents, counterfeit of Isaac’s descendents fight to gain the blessing to try and take the kingdom of Heaven by force~ as counterfeits, as envoys from Babylon, they seek to pretend to serve God calling Him, Allah, but Allah is the angel of light- the spirit of antichrist – the deceiver of nations, even those born into it are deceived into thinking they are doing ‘god’ a service, but their god is not our God! John 8:44 describes their mandate spiritually, they will come and do as they did to Hezekiah, pretending concern so as to gain the secrets of the treasury and cost Hezekiah the kingdom! Their time may be short, but they are coming into it as a descendent of Ishmael is on the rise. That charismatic false peace maker is coming. The nations will love him as the world loves its own ~ under the guise of peace and humanity he will deceive the nations and when he has seized power, the mask will come off and all who havent bowed to him will be sought out and persuaded as a famine of the Word will come and the hearts of  most grow cold and weary wondering when He will return for us.The evil one like Absalom will gain the hearts of many people. He would fool the world and the very elect if it were possible.

WE all will have a Job like experience, we all will pass through the flood and the fires of this life, but we are told to fear not for He is with us and His rod and staff will comfort us. We are to continue and study showing ourselves approved, rightly dividing the Word of God! WE are to put on that whole armour of God and listen to that still small voice~ WE are to tests the spirits and hold fast to that which is ‘good’ as we take every ‘thought’ captive and choose each day whom we will serve~

We must decrease, as He must increase, we are to try and learn what is pleasing to the  Lord and as we put to death the deeds of the flesh we can put on the mind of Christ and no longer be double minded as those who receive nothing from God almighty.We must stand fast, being assured of the blessed hope we have in HIM and not listen to those seducing familiar religious spirits that satan has mingled into the churches today bringing their false doctrines of demons along with them with their thus saith the lords… speaking words but not HIS, prophecying lies and causing each to do what is right in their own eyes, without seeking the will of the Father in their lives..A great falling away is coming among those who hold a form of religion but through their live’s actions, deny the power of it! The warning went out to the 7 churches in Revelations and is a warning to us as well that we must prepare the way of the Lord!

This generation is growing up not ‘knowing’ God. A man’s enemies will be that of his own household, including the household of faith. Satan has caused divisions and lies to grow in like weeds in the garden of our Lord and Jesus said that the spirit of antichrist was already at work, even back when Jesus was preparing to go back to the Father!

How many men have killed one another, thinking they were doing God a service?  Satan, that counterfeiter has been playing god and making the church his tower of babel so, confusing the speech of the people and breaking unity to prevent men from knowing how to seek God. For lack of knowledge, my people go into exile~ for lack of knowledge my people perish….
Purify your hearts you sinners we are told to cleanse our minds and to stop being double minded as the battle for our souls is ongoing in our own hearts and minds! The enemy is a whisperer, a deceiver and lures and entices us by own own desires ever planting thoughts in our heads for us to choose to indulge in. That causes men to sin and sin when full grown will bring forth death!
We are to renounce all the workings of satan in our lives if we are to expect to be joint heirs with Jesus. Jn 3:36 says he who believes in the Son has everlasting life, but also says, ‘he who dont not obey the Son [some translations say does not believe the Son] shall NOT see life but the wrath of God rests upon him and it is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the Living God!…
Pauls said o wretched man that I am…and so are we ~!…For me to live is Christ and to die is GAIN~ how many of us are prepared to put our lives where our words are? How many rather hear smoothe speech and not deal with their responsibility to study word and know well the condition of God’s flock?

How do we hear that still small voice of the Holy Spirit? God shares the throne with no one, especially satan. He had him cast out of heaven when he tried to sieze the throne….Know ye not we are the temple of the Holy Spirit? What then are we to do…?…WE are to renounce our wicked ways!! WE are to renounce the workings of satan in our lives.. All those sublte spirits that entertain our thoughts, our unspoken thoughts…Jesus said that for a man to even look on a woman , that if he lusted in his heart , he has already committed adultery! That example speaks to our minds!….The battle for our eternal salvation is in our minds, not our whitewashed outer tombs!!
What are the workings of satan in our lives?What is it that we are to renounce ? How do we know that it is the Holy Spirit that is speaking to us to guide us into all truth?…[by taking heed according to the Word...]

The heart is deceitful and desperate to be corrupt! Secret sins in our members~ outwardly clean but the cup is full of iniquity!We can go through the motions and continue to deceive ourselves, but then how will we stand in the jungle of the Jordan, when we cant stand up against the wrong in our own hearts? The Lord searches the hearts and minds of men~ even if our heart condemns us, He is greater than our hearts and if we repent- if MY people who are called by MY Name, humble themselves and PRAY, I will forgive them their sins  and cleanse them from all manner of unrighteousness….How can we do this? How do we face ourselves and stand up and choose Jesus?
These people honor me with their lips but their hearts are far from Me….

Jesus spoke to the man with demons and asked his name…Legion, for we are many….Jesus cast Legion out and they went into the swine and jumped off the cliff….A legion is comprised of many soldiers~ The devil is at war with the saints and never sleeps or slumbers but is ever about roaming like a lion seeking whom he may devour~

There is no discharge from the ‘war’, nor will wickedness deliver those who are given to it. To the pure He shows Himself Pure, but to the ‘crooked’ He shows Himself ‘perverse’ [or crooked, such as people blaming God when things go wrong in their lives  or take matters into their own hands rather than listening to the Holy Spirit, choosing to do it their way, BUT we are warned " My thoughts are not your thoughts says the Lord ~ nor My ways are your ways"...

Paul said, O wretched man that I am...remember??

So we are to renounce the workings of satan in our lives...we are to clean our house and guard the door so the thief can not enter in and make us 7 times worse~than when we began....

Or we can say Lord Lord we did many works, in Your name, but He will say 'begone' I dont know you!!Repent.. How do we repent? By renouncing the workings of satan in our lives!! How... ?
What is your name, Jesus asked and when told, he cast satan out! He wasnt asking the demoniac 'his' name but He was asking for the 'name[s]‘ of the devils that were leading the man astray and taking him out of his ‘right ‘ mind~ as all who could see the man knew he was naked before the Lord….

Name them, cast them out,lock the door, trim your lamp, preserve the oil of the Holy Spirit by whom you were annointed by on the day you called Christ your Lord….
Unveil yourself, remove that mask of self righteousness!  Get naked before the Lord and remove those whitewashed tombstones and let the dead bury the dead while you come back to life in Him…

Recognise them, name them and cast them out… the spirit of self righteousness, the spirit of pride, the spirit of condemnation, the spirit of calamity, the spirit of deceit, the spirit of ‘religion’, the spirit of hate, the spirit of  envy, the spirit of strife, the spirit of greed, the spirit of gluttony, the spirit of malice, the spirit of depression, the spirit of defeat, the spirit of fear,the spirit of confusion,the spirit of bearing false witness, the spirit of false prophecy, the spirit of coersion,the spirit of falsehood, the spirit of false religion, the spirit of pretense,the spirit of rage, the spirit of anxiety,the spirit of disobedience, the spirit of rejection, the spirit of lust, the spirit of jealousy, the spirit of murder, the spirit of prejudice, the spirit of racism, the spirit of haughtiness, the spirit of deception, the spirit of lies, the spirit of pride, the spirit of laziness, the spirit of control, the spirit of manipulation, the spirit of ego, the spirit of self centeredness, the spirit of guilt, the spirit of war, the spirit of anger, the spirit of wickedness, the spirit of compromise, the spirit of revenge, the spirit of chaos, the spirit of destruction, the spirit of immorality, the spirit of doubt, the spirit of elitism, the spirit of deafness, the spirit of blindness, the spirit of cowardess, the spirit of narcissism, the spirit of betrayal, the spirit of drunkeness, the spirit of doublemindedness, the spirit of divination, the spirit of witchcraft, the spirit of rebellion , the spirit of greed, the spirit of surrender, the spirit of condemnation, the spirit of woe, the spirit of hate together with all the others, named and unnamed together in tandem custom lured by your own desires, that if  you continue to allow them one room in the house of your mind, you can not please God your Father~

Repent, open your hearts to God and lay yourself at the foot of the cross and renounce the workings of satan in your life! Be healed and freed in the name of Jesus! Embrace your salvation, go and sin no more,making disciples of all the nations…starting with the nation of your own heart. Be washed by the water of the Word!  receive the continual cleansing with the living waters – repent and be baptised by the Holy Spirit, not holding a form of religion but being pure religion, before God our Father, visiting  not only the physical widows, but the spiritual ones as well, those who have lost their husband …those who have lost God in their lives and  backslid…visit the orphans, including the spiritual orphans, those who have no Father …so they can experience the adoption of God~! but to all who received HIM who believed [obeyed] in HIS Name[Jesus} He gave POWER to become Children of God~ who were ‘born’ not of man but of the will of God…. He is willing that none should perish,BUT that ALL come unto repentence~taste and see that the Lord is good~

Then you will experience that peace that surpasses understanding as the weight of the ‘world’ will be lifted off your shoulders as Jesus said His yoke is  easy ~ and once we can face ourselves, naked and unashamed before God, not hiding from him but being able to boldly come before the throne of grace~

ALL that the Father gives to Me will come to Me and him who comes to Me, I will NOT cast out…The sooner we believe He loves us and cares for us and is concerned for us, the sooner we cast out all doubt and doublemindedness, the sooner we will be able to fully embrace the Love of God in our lives and be able to witness it to others….

This is what the Lord has done for me in my life! He has given me an ear to hear and spiritual eyes to see and the ear tries words like the palate tastes food. Every Word of the Lord proves true…

GBU~!
Ave

Obama~ The Pied Piper~! Deceiver Not a Savior~!

Obama has made alot of promises that dont make sense when delved into. He has been more like a “Pied Piper” to the poor, disenfranchised, disgruntled, disenchanted, the apathetic, the anarchists, the socialists, the unpatriotic  and those too busy to care as well as the  uniformed. His position with unpatriotic people, his refusal to salute our flag, his not visiting our wounded veterans, his under the counter and over the counter alliance with unscrupulous people going all the way back to 1981, his denials of things that have been publicly proven about him, his ability through the media that has endorsed him for their own agenda,  his affinity with rich arab business men, some who have been prosecuted and now are in jail, his part in the Fannie /Freddie collapse and the campaign payoffs he publicly received … there are simply too many red flags and too many deceptions, too many unanswered questions  about him!! WE can not ignore this nor should we~   Regardless to the media’s persistent denegration of Mc Cain and Palin, they are  still the best choice for  this election and every soberminded , intelligent, reasonable person should consider voting for McCain regardless to race, religion or political persuasion. Our nation has hope as long as we continue to choose leaders that are dedicated to making our nation great, militarily strong and socially flourishing in education, jobs and economy.   Obama is not about making our nation great, rather he is about socializing and weakening it, turning it eventually into a weakened third world power, if he wins.   Dont let this happen to America! Save America ~ vote for McCain & Palin~   To those who are at any level,  faith minded, I have some scriptures to share below that should help bring about a proper frame of mind in helping you to see and decide what is actually the right thing to do… Please read this in its entirety and consider this when you vote…even if you dont really believe in religion, these are still good to consider for any human being.   Food for thought…. most seems basic to me and may seem so to some of you, but to one particular guy  I have sent this too, he just doesnt understand where I am coming from and still chooses to believe you can be a prochoice abortion endorsing Christian who will be accepted by God. I disagree according to my consciously studying what is at stake for our nation with this being one of the most important elections in history and so I have applied my full understanding in presenting my views.  As a bible believing Christian, not necessarily religious or affiliated with any church,  I  do however think I have the mind of Christ in regards to these matters and think I understand as one who has the Holy Spirit guiding me. I could be in error, if that can be demonstrated biblically, but this fellow, offers nothing but his surmations of his reading of what I wrote and shows no basis for his own conclusions other than to attack me.. Oh well , I wanted to share these anyway and think most Christians will remember them & non christians can also agree or disagree with them, and if you agree let me know but also if you think I am wrong on any of it still let me know. Thanks~! GBU~! Ave   Colossians 1:10 NIV • Read this chapter And we pray this in order that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and may please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, As we mature in Christ, the things of this world are viewed more as ‘trappings’  or the cares of the world that we abandon as we see more clearly how to please t he Lord.”He must increase & I must decrease” becomes not only ‘understood’ but embraced and complied with to our own benefit, which then explains when Jesus said ” My yoke is easy”.. It does get easier when you seek to do his will, resist the devil and not compromise, which keeps you free from guilt as the devil looses his foothold in your life… 1 John 3:9 NIV • Read this chapter No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God’s seed remains in him; he cannot go on sinning, because he has been born of God. …So as we yield to the Holy Spirit and are ‘watered’ by the Word, we begin to grow in Christ and as we study His word, seeking his will and not some ‘angle’ to manipulate the word according to our desires… We see that we must resist the devil and our self serving desires which would give birth to sin and bring us to failure and even death.  We are born of God, no longer subject to the flesh, although we inhabit earthly bodies, we are to glorify God in our bodies as well…It isnt as hard, once we submit to his teaching and will for us . All that the father gives to me will come to me.. .Jesus said, since He is willing that NONE should perish, it is fairly certain that since we are ‘chosen’[you did not choose me but I chose you...] Some through their own stubborness and rebellion, resist the Father’s will for great portions of their earthly lives… it is said that even the elect ‘could’ be fooled…but not that they ‘would’. Some say that we get into Predestination as a result of these promises of God and since he knows the beginning and the end of the matter, there is an element of that.It should be to our encouragement however, since he has plans for us that are ‘good’ and not evil… 1 Thessalonians 4:1 NIV • Read this chapter [ Living to Please God ] Finally, brothers, we instructed you how to live in order to please God, as in fact you are living. Now we ask you and urge you in the Lord Jesus to do this more and more.   …Once we come to terms to trust and believe in God and not lean on our own ‘understanding’ we can begin the process of cleansing our temple[mind& heart]putting away the childish things, studying and learning to a workman serving God  no longer allowing evil thoughts to persuade our carnal minds, as we gradually  put on the  mind of Christ. Philippians 1:21 NIVUK • Read this chapter For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain. …When we become disciplined and accustomed to living in the Word and putting the flesh last while we practice our belief as we choose new each day , in each and every circumstance we face, who we will choose to serve.. It is one or the other, God or our own carnal reasoning which was introduced to us by the devil…If God is God choose Him and live.. if he is not God or Lord of your life you will not choose Him. So to live is Christ and to put to death the deeds of the flesh is gaining favor in God’s sight and will lead to becoming joint heirs with Jesus. Therefore as Paul said, we can not compare the sufferings we face now with the glories of the things to come.. 2 Thessalonians 3:6 NIVUK • Read this chapter [ Warning Against Idleness ] In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, we command you, brothers, to keep away from every brother who is idle and does not live according to the teaching you received from us. …If we become complacent and shrug our reasonable duty to God when we have been freed by His grace from all matters of our unrighteousness, when we put on Christ’s righteousness in our lives, we are reminded to ‘go and sin no more’…. If we let our light so shine before men, we do our duty to make disciples of all the nations and not shun our responsibilities as Christians in any area of our lives, including ‘everything’ we are to give thanks in and for.. then even in matters such as politics, we are sometimes faced with the spiritually moral dilemmas presented and it is then we have to stand up for Jesus and what he would do and want us to do. We can not slack off as curse is he who does the will of God with slackness!!We  also are not to be cowardly or hide our lamp under a bushel… so being a hidden believer and not bearing the fruits of the Spirit make us double minded, two faced and self deceived. John 3:36 NASB        36“He who believes in the Son has eternal life; but he who does not obey the Son will not see life, but the wrath of God abides on him.” …If we ‘believe’ and not just merely surfacely acknowledge a weak allegiance to … we will embrace and digest that belief to become part of us and then live by that belief… we are to obey and continue in his word and thus prove to be his disciples… we arent to be like the seed on rocky soil that grows a bit and then shrivels before any fruit can be born.We are to be like the tree planted by living waters and grow and bear fruit doing the will of our Father in heaven as Jesus always did what was pleasing to His Father, so shall we do. 2 Corinthians 10:5 NIVUK • Read this chapter We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ. …We can not allow ourselves to compromise and allow evil to have its place in our lives as the Lord shares his throne with no evil~! WE must take every thought captive and not be like Adam & Eve who considered, embraced and partook of reasoning that allowed them to defy God and thus loose their position in the garden, being cast out. 1 John 4:1 NIV • Read this chapter [ Test the Spirits ] Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. …the battleground for our souls is in our minds and thoughts are constantly presented to our minds to consider and think about which lead to our action or inactions.We will be judged by our actions and intent of our hearts. If we harbor iniquity in our hearts then we are double minded, meaning we entertain thoughts presented by demonic influences of the spirits roaming to and fro seeking whom they may devour… Resist the devil and reject the evil thoughts and you will be able to see right and wrong as you yield to the will of the Father. 2 Timothy 2:14 NIV • Read this chapter [ A Workman Approved by God ] Keep reminding them of these things. Warn them before God against quarreling about words; it is of no value, and only ruins those who listen. …The Holy Spirit of God that guides us into all truth, is always in agreement with the Word so where 2 or more are gathered in “MY” name, there I will be in the midst of them… a promise and instruction as to how we can test the spirit of any thought we get to consider. The Holy Spirit will never tell you anything that goes against the word of God as a house divided can not stand and Jesus and the Father are one and their Spirit of Truth is one with them as well and is here to guide us. 2 Timothy 2:15 NIV • Read this chapter Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth. …AS we study God’s word and let it grow in our hearts and minds, it will be ready to bear witness to what the Holy Spirit tries to teach us and also will send up the red flags when religious thoughts [from spirit of religion] and others in tandem approach your mind with the ‘what ifs’ that ultimately would cause you to doubt God and fail. So study and become one with the word as Jesus is one with the Father! Romans 12:1 NASB • Read this chapter [ Dedicated Service ] Therefore [1 Cor 1:10; 2 Cor 10:1-4; Eph 4:1; 1 Pet 2:11] I urge you, brethren, by the mercies of God, to [Rom 6:13, 16, 19; 1 Cor 6:20; Heb 13:15; 1 Pet 2:5] present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship. …The closer you draw near to God the closer he will draw near to you.. which would only stand to reason t hat you would want to be as best prepared to be before Him and not stand ashamed.   Romans 8:13 NASB • Read this chapter for [Rom 8:6] if you are living according to the flesh, you must die; but if by the Spirit you are [Col 3:5] putting to death the deeds of the body, you will live. …all things are lawful for me but not all things are helpful, so to continue in an activity that will bring you shame , it is better to forsake such sinful activity and become a living sacrifice so that no one can rightly accuse you when you know you are doing the Lords will. Being falsely accused will happen, but you will know that your redeemer lives and that as long as you seek his will you will be safe from judgement. Matthew 18:15 NIV • Read this chapter [ A Brother Who Sins Against You ] “If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over. …Trying to show an unyielding carnal minded brother is not an easy task, especially when he has wronged you.Trying to bring him to his right mind in exposing the wrong is also difficult as he who is estranged will seek pretext to break out against sound judgement. So in love and gentleness you are to show the brother the error of his way and pray the Holy Spirit grants him repentence. If you are able to reach and persuade him to the truth, you will be blessed for having restored a brother. Ezekiel 3:18 NASB • Read this chapter “When I say to the wicked, ‘You will surely die,’ and you do not warn him or speak out to warn the wicked from his wicked way that he may live, that wicked man shall die in his iniquity, but his [Ezek 3:20; 33:6, 8] blood I will require at your hand. …If like when Jonah didnt want to warn the Ninevites because he saw them as enemy, you are rebelling against the will of God and your life will reap punishment til you repent and comply..IF you do and others are reached for righteousness to give God glory, then you will be rewarded but if you dont, then you will be blamed…We are to walk blameless to it is better to do God’s will! Titus 3:10 NASB • Read this chapter [2 John 10] Reject a [Rom 16:17] factious man [Matt 18:15] after a first and second warning, …when a false teacher or false brother is in your midst only causing dissension and raising doubts to lead others astray, you are to warn him and witness to him in hopes of restoring him. If he remains unyielding and obviously is leading others astray, then you are to warn him to desist and if he doesnt, then you are to shun him and have nothing more to do with him til he is ready to receive the word of God and obey it. Philippians 4:8 NIV • Read this chapter Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things …To be yielding to the Holy Spirit’s guidance will cause you to put away fifthy talk, thought word and deed and when you choose to think on fruitful thoughts you will be able to honestly please the father. Galatians 5:22 NIV • Read this chapter But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness …This is the barometer of how we are to sek and serve God..the Holy Spirit will bear peaceable fruits of righteousness within our beings and gradually allow those fruits to guide us in all our daily considerations and decisions . 1 Thessalonians 2:4 NIV • Read this chapter On the contrary, we speak as men approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel. We are not trying to please men but God, who tests our hearts. …As we mature, we become more confident in the word and we wear the whole armour of God, rightly divide the word and can stand ready to give account to all who ask or demand of us. We may not be popular and may be rejected but as servants are not greater than their master, we can expect at times to be mistreated as Jesus was, so when we are meeting various trials we are to count it as joy that we are privileged to share in his sufferings! Hebrews 6:11 NIV • Read this chapter We want each of you to show this same diligence to the very end, in order to make your hope sure. …To do this we must obey and embrace Gods word and not be double minded as to not receive from him the wisdom the Holy Spirit wishes to impart to us. If you are confused about who you are listening to, then that is not from God and you need to stop thinking, pray and wait to receive confirmation from the Lord before you proceed. Once you are certain that you are hearing from the Holy Spirit, you will then be empowered to do Gods will.   Matthew 5:19 NIV • Read this chapter Anyone who breaks one of the least of these commandments and teaches others to do the same will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever practices and teaches these commands will be called great in the kingdom of heaven. …If you allow earthly compromise to negate Gods will then  you will fail.If you stand up to what you know what is right according to Gods will and not the will of man, then you will be great in the kingdom of God, even if you are looked upon as a nut by others.   Acts 5:29 NIV • Read this chapter Peter and the other apostles replied: “We must obey God rather than men. …This is true for all of us and it is time we stand against abortion in America as it is evil, no matter how you may carnally want to justify it! If God is Lord of your life, then obey him!~ I have now had some time to think and review these verses and have placed my initial comments on them according the the  level I am now at in my service to almighty God. I hope and pray that you will see what the Lord is trying to tell you through the words he has enabled me to present.  GBU~! Ave Ave     0 Comments – 0 Kudos – Add Comment – Edit - Remove

10:33 PM - Food for thought before the presidential elections Current mood: contemplative Category: Religion and Philosophy   Food for thought…. most seems basic to me and may seem so to you, but to one I have sent this too, he doesnt understand where I am coming from and still chooses to believe you can be a prochoice abortion endorsing Christian who will be accepted by God. I disagree according to my understanding, I think I have the mind of Christ in these matters and think I understand as one who has the Holy Spirit guiding me. I could be in error, if that can be demonstrated biblically, but this fellow, offers nothing but surmations of his reading of what I wrote and shows no basis for his own conclusions other than to attack me.. Oh well , I wanted to share these anyway and think most will remember them and if you agree let me know but also if you think I am wrong on any of it still let me know. Thanks~! GBU~! Ave   Colossians 1:10 NIV • Read this chapter And we pray this in order that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and may please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, As we mature in Christ, the things of this world are viewed more as ‘trappings’  or the cares of the world that we abandon as we see more clearly how to please t he Lord.”He must increase & I must decrease” becomes not only ‘understood’ but embraced and complied with to our own benefit, which then explains when Jesus said ” My yoke is easy”.. It does get easier when you seek to do his will, resist the devil and not compromise, which keeps you free from guilt as the devil looses his foothold in your life… 1 John 3:9 NIV • Read this chapter No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God’s seed remains in him; he cannot go on sinning, because he has been born of God. …So as we yield to the Holy Spirit and are ‘watered’ by the Word, we begin to grow in Christ and as we study His word, seeking his will and not some ‘angle’ to manipulate the word according to our desires… We see that we must resist the devil and our self serving desires which would give birth to sin and bring us to failure and even death.  We are born of God, no longer subject to the flesh, although we inhabit earthly bodies, we are to glorify God in our bodies as well…It isnt as hard, once we submit to his teaching and will for us . All that the father gives to me will come to me.. .Jesus said, since He is willing that NONE should perish, it is fairly certain that since we are ‘chosen’[you did not choose me but I chose you...] Some through their own stubborness and rebellion, resist the Father’s will for great portions of their earthly lives… it is said that even the elect ‘could’ be fooled…but not that they ‘would’. Some say that we get into Predestination as a result of these promises of God and since he knows the beginning and the end of the matter, there is an element of that.It should be to our encouragement however, since he has plans for us that are ‘good’ and not evil… 1 Thessalonians 4:1 NIV • Read this chapter [ Living to Please God ] Finally, brothers, we instructed you how to live in order to please God, as in fact you are living. Now we ask you and urge you in the Lord Jesus to do this more and more.   …Once we come to terms to trust and believe in God and not lean on our own ‘understanding’ we can begin the process of cleansing our temple[mind& heart]putting away the childish things, studying and learning to a workman serving God  no longer allowing evil thoughts to persuade our carnal minds, as we gradually  put on the  mind of Christ. Philippians 1:21 NIVUK • Read this chapter For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain. …When we become disciplined and accustomed to living in the Word and putting the flesh last while we practice our belief as we choose new each day , in each and every circumstance we face, who we will choose to serve.. It is one or the other, God or our own carnal reasoning which was introduced to us by the devil…If God is God choose Him and live.. if he is not God or Lord of your life you will not choose Him. So to live is Christ and to put to death the deeds of the flesh is gaining favor in God’s sight and will lead to becoming joint heirs with Jesus. Therefore as Paul said, we can not compare the sufferings we face now with the glories of the things to come.. 2 Thessalonians 3:6 NIVUK • Read this chapter [ Warning Against Idleness ] In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, we command you, brothers, to keep away from every brother who is idle and does not live according to the teaching you received from us. …If we become complacent and shrug our reasonable duty to God when we have been freed by His grace from all matters of our unrighteousness, when we put on Christ’s righteousness in our lives, we are reminded to ‘go and sin no more’…. If we let our light so shine before men, we do our duty to make disciples of all the nations and not shun our responsibilities as Christians in any area of our lives, including ‘everything’ we are to give thanks in and for.. then even in matters such as politics, we are sometimes faced with the spiritually moral dilemmas presented and it is then we have to stand up for Jesus and what he would do and want us to do. We can not slack off as curse is he who does the will of God with slackness!!We  also are not to be cowardly or hide our lamp under a bushel… so being a hidden believer and not bearing the fruits of the Spirit make us double minded, two faced and self deceived. John 3:36 NASB        36“He who believes in the Son has eternal life; but he who does not obey the Son will not see life, but the wrath of God abides on him.” …If we ‘believe’ and not just merely surfacely acknowledge a weak allegiance to … we will embrace and digest that belief to become part of us and then live by that belief… we are to obey and continue in his word and thus prove to be his disciples… we arent to be like the seed on rocky soil that grows a bit and then shrivels before any fruit can be born.We are to be like the tree planted by living waters and grow and bear fruit doing the will of our Father in heaven as Jesus always did what was pleasing to His Father, so shall we do. 2 Corinthians 10:5 NIVUK • Read this chapter We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ. …We can not allow ourselves to compromise and allow evil to have its place in our lives as the Lord shares his throne with no evil~! WE must take every thought captive and not be like Adam & Eve who considered, embraced and partook of reasoning that allowed them to defy God and thus loose their position in the garden, being cast out. 1 John 4:1 NIV • Read this chapter [ Test the Spirits ] Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. …the battleground for our souls is in our minds and thoughts are constantly presented to our minds to consider and think about which lead to our action or inactions.We will be judged by our actions and intent of our hearts. If we harbor iniquity in our hearts then we are double minded, meaning we entertain thoughts presented by demonic influences of the spirits roaming to and fro seeking whom they may devour… Resist the devil and reject the evil thoughts and you will be able to see right and wrong as you yield to the will of the Father. 2 Timothy 2:14 NIV • Read this chapter [ A Workman Approved by God ] Keep reminding them of these things. Warn them before God against quarreling about words; it is of no value, and only ruins those who listen. …The Holy Spirit of God that guides us into all truth, is always in agreement with the Word so where 2 or more are gathered in “MY” name, there I will be in the midst of them… a promise and instruction as to how we can test the spirit of any thought we get to consider. The Holy Spirit will never tell you anything that goes against the word of God as a house divided can not stand and Jesus and the Father are one and their Spirit of Truth is one with them as well and is here to guide us. 2 Timothy 2:15 NIV • Read this chapter Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth. …AS we study God’s word and let it grow in our hearts and minds, it will be ready to bear witness to what the Holy Spirit tries to teach us and also will send up the red flags when religious thoughts [from spirit of religion] and others in tandem approach your mind with the ‘what ifs’ that ultimately would cause you to doubt God and fail. So study and become one with the word as Jesus is one with the Father! Romans 12:1 NASB • Read this chapter [ Dedicated Service ] Therefore [1 Cor 1:10; 2 Cor 10:1-4; Eph 4:1; 1 Pet 2:11] I urge you, brethren, by the mercies of God, to [Rom 6:13, 16, 19; 1 Cor 6:20; Heb 13:15; 1 Pet 2:5] present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship. …The closer you draw near to God the closer he will draw near to you.. which would only stand to reason t hat you would want to be as best prepared to be before Him and not stand ashamed.   Romans 8:13 NASB • Read this chapter for [Rom 8:6] if you are living according to the flesh, you must die; but if by the Spirit you are [Col 3:5] putting to death the deeds of the body, you will live. …all things are lawful for me but not all things are helpful, so to continue in an activity that will bring you shame , it is better to forsake such sinful activity and become a living sacrifice so that no one can rightly accuse you when you know you are doing the Lords will. Being falsely accused will happen, but you will know that your redeemer lives and that as long as you seek his will you will be safe from judgement. Matthew 18:15 NIV • Read this chapter [ A Brother Who Sins Against You ] “If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over. …Trying to show an unyielding carnal minded brother is not an easy task, especially when he has wronged you.Trying to bring him to his right mind in exposing the wrong is also difficult as he who is estranged will seek pretext to break out against sound judgement. So in love and gentleness you are to show the brother the error of his way and pray the Holy Spirit grants him repentence. If you are able to reach and persuade him to the truth, you will be blessed for having restored a brother. Ezekiel 3:18 NASB • Read this chapter “When I say to the wicked, ‘You will surely die,’ and you do not warn him or speak out to warn the wicked from his wicked way that he may live, that wicked man shall die in his iniquity, but his [Ezek 3:20; 33:6, 8] blood I will require at your hand. …If like when Jonah didnt want to warn the Ninevites because he saw them as enemy, you are rebelling against the will of God and your life will reap punishment til you repent and comply..IF you do and others are reached for righteousness to give God glory, then you will be rewarded but if you dont, then you will be blamed…We are to walk blameless to it is better to do God’s will! Titus 3:10 NASB • Read this chapter [2 John 10] Reject a [Rom 16:17] factious man [Matt 18:15] after a first and second warning, …when a false teacher or false brother is in your midst only causing dissension and raising doubts to lead others astray, you are to warn him and witness to him in hopes of restoring him. If he remains unyielding and obviously is leading others astray, then you are to warn him to desist and if he doesnt, then you are to shun him and have nothing more to do with him til he is ready to receive the word of God and obey it. Philippians 4:8 NIV • Read this chapter Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things …To be yielding to the Holy Spirit’s guidance will cause you to put away fifthy talk, thought word and deed and when you choose to think on fruitful thoughts you will be able to honestly please the father. Galatians 5:22 NIV • Read this chapter But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness …This is the barometer of how we are to sek and serve God..the Holy Spirit will bear peaceable fruits of righteousness within our beings and gradually allow those fruits to guide us in all our daily considerations and decisions . 1 Thessalonians 2:4 NIV • Read this chapter On the contrary, we speak as men approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel. We are not trying to please men but God, who tests our hearts. …As we mature, we become more confident in the word and we wear the whole armour of God, rightly divide the word and can stand ready to give account to all who ask or demand of us. We may not be popular and may be rejected but as servants are not greater than their master, we can expect at times to be mistreated as Jesus was, so when we are meeting various trials we are to count it as joy that we are privileged to share in his sufferings! Hebrews 6:11 NIV • Read this chapter We want each of you to show this same diligence to the very end, in order to make your hope sure. …To do this we must obey and embrace Gods word and not be double minded as to not receive from him the wisdom the Holy Spirit wishes to impart to us. If you are confused about who you are listening to, then that is not from God and you need to stop thinking, pray and wait to receive confirmation from the Lord before you proceed. Once you are certain that you are hearing from the Holy Spirit, you will then be empowered to do Gods will.   Matthew 5:19 NIV • Read this chapter Anyone who breaks one of the least of these commandments and teaches others to do the same will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever practices and teaches these commands will be called great in the kingdom of heaven. …If you allow earthly compromise to negate Gods will then  you will fail.If you stand up to what you know what is right according to Gods will and not the will of man, then you will be great in the kingdom of God, even if you are looked upon as a nut by others.   Acts 5:29 NIV • Read this chapter Peter and the other apostles replied: “We must obey God rather than men. …This is true for all of us and it is time we stand against abortion in America as it is evil, no matter how you may carnally want to justify it! Over 47 Million have been killed so far~ their choices silenced, their bodies mercillessly ripped apart and disposed of like trash. If God is Lord of your life, then obey him!~ If you have a conscience obey that~! I have now had some time to think and review these verses and have placed my initial comments on them according the the  level I am now at in my service to almighty God. I hope and pray that you will see what the Lord is trying to tell you through the words he has enabled me to present.  GBU~! Ave

OBAMA AND THE TROJAN HORSE…CANT WE LEARN ANYTHING FROM HISTORY???

Here are some new facts I received concerning some of Obama’s background.

It makes alot of sense to be more suspicious~!It is long but you really ought to read it!

MAYBE THOSE RELIGIOUS FANATICS WE LAUGH AT REALLY DO KNOW WHATS GOING ON~!  Ave

 

This election has me very worried. So many things to consider.

 

I watch all the news channels, jumping from one to another. I must say
this drives my husband crazy. But, I feel if you view MSNBC, CNN, and
Fox News, you might get some middle ground to work with. About six
months ago, I started thinking— “where did the money come from for
Obama”. I have four daughters who went to College, and we were middle
class, and money was tight. We (including my girls) worked hard and
there were lots of student loans.

 

I started looking into Obama’s life.

 

Around 1979 Obama started college at Occidental in California.

 

He is very open about his two years at Occidental; he tried all kinds of drugs and was wasting his time but, even though he had a brilliant mind, did not apply himself to his studies.

 

“Barry” (that was the name he used all his life) during this time had
two roommates, Muhammad Hasan Chandoo and Wahid Hamid, both from Pakistan.

 

During the summer of 1981, after his second year in college, he made a “round the world” trip. Stopping to see his mother in Indonesia, next Hyderabad in India, three weeks in Karachi, Pakistan where he stayed with his roommate’s family, then off to Africa to visit his father’s family.

 

My question – Where did he get the money for this trip?

Neither I, nor any one of my children would have had money for a trip like this when they where in college.

 

When he came back he started school at Columbia University in New York.

 

It is at this time he wants everyone to call him Barack – not Barry.

 

Do you know what the tuition is at Columbia?

It’s not cheap! to say the least.

Where did he get money for tuition?

Student Loans? Maybe.

 

After Columbia, he went to Chicago to work as a Community Organizer for $12,000. a year. Why Chicago? Why not New York? He was already living in New York.

 

 

By “chance” he met Antoin “Tony” Rezko, born in Aleppo Syria, and a real estate developer in Chicago.

Rezko has been convicted of fraud and bribery this year.

Rezko, was named “Entrepreneur of the Decade” by the
Arab-American Business and Professional Association”.

 

 

About two years later, Obama entered Harvard Law School. Do you have any idea what tuition is for Harvard Law School?

 

Where did he get the money for Law School?

More student loans?

 

After Law school, he went back to Chicago.

Rezko offered him a job, which he turned down.

But, he did take a job with Davis, Miner, Barnhill & Galland. Guess what? They represented “Rezar” which is Rezko’s firm.

 

Rezko was one of Obama’s first major financial contributors when he ran for office in Chicago.

 

In 2003, Rezko threw an early fundraiser for Obama which Chicago Tribune reporter David Mendelland claims was instrumental in providing Obama with “seed money” for his U.S. Senate race.

 

 

In 2005, Obama purchased a new home in Kenwood District of Chicago for $1.65 million (less than asking price).

 

 

With ALL those Student Loans -
Where did he get the money for the property?

 

On the same day Rezko’s wife, Rita, purchased the adjoining empty lot for full price.

 

The London Times reported that Nadhmi Auchi, an Iraqi-born Billionaire loaned Rezko $3.5 million three weeks before Obama’s new home was purchased.

 

Obama met Nadhmi Auchi many times with Rezko.

 

Now, we have Obama running for President.

 

 

Valerie Jarrett, was Michele Obama’s boss.

 

She is now Obama’s chief advisor and he does not make any
major decisions without talking to her first.

 

Where was Jarrett born?
Ready for this?

 

Shiraz, Iran. 

 

Do we see a pattern here? Or, am I going  crazy?

 

 

On May 10, 2008 The Times reported, Robert Malley advisor to Obama was “sacked” after the press found out he was having regular contacts with “Hamas “, which controls Gaza and is connected with Iran.

 

 

This past week, buried in the back part of the papers, Iraqi newspapers reported that during Obama’s visit to Iraq, he asked their leaders to do nothing about the war until after he is elected, and he will “Take care of
things”.

 

Oh, and by the way, remember the college roommates that where born in
Pakistan?

 

They are in charge of all those “small” Internet campaign contributions for Obama.

 

Where is that money coming from?

 

The poor and middle class in this country?

 

 Or could it be from the Middle East?

 

 

And the final bit of news.

 

On September 7, 2008, The Washington Times posted a verbal slip that was made on “This Week” with George Stephanapoulos.

 

Obama on talking about his religion said, “My Muslim
faith”. When questioned, “he made a mistake”. Some mistake!

 

All of the above information I got on line.

 

If you would like to check
it – Wikipedia, encyclopedia, Barack Obama; Tony Rezko; Valerie Jarrett
Daily Times – Obama visited Pakistan in 1981; The Washington Times -
September 7, 2008; The Times May 10, 2008.

 

Today there is a lot of confusion WHY the LA Times will not release a tape that shows Obama and a few ant-Israel and Palistnian toasting to each  other. 

 

They say it is to protect the identity of the person who taped it but why can’t they block that person if in fact that person is part of the taping.

 

AND, why isn’t he telling the Americans about his association to ACORN?

 

 

What is this guy hiding?

 

Do you remember the story of the Trojan Horse? 

 

Could Obama and his  associates be inside that statue, waiting for election day to come out and

take over our great country?  

 

 WHO is supporting him and who is REALLY

backing Obama?

 

 

Now the BIG question – If I found out all this information on my own,
why haven’t all of our “intelligent” members of the press been reporting
this?

 

A phrase that keeps ringing in my ear – “Beware of the enemy from
within.”

 

Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted.”

 

IF you do not believe in GOD, you’ll believe anything.

NOW AS WE KNOW GOD OFTEN USES WHAT SEEMS TO BE THE FOOLISH THINGS OF THIS WORLD TO CONFOUND THE WISDOM OF THE WISE~ maybe God  is giving America one last chance to stop this all from happening now, by placing Sarah Palin on McCain’s ticket!~

If you have been on the fence as to who to vote for I highly encourage you

DON’T vote for Obama,

VOTE for McCain & Palin!!

Worry looks around, sorry looks back, Faith looks up

 

First the devil said it to Eve… now he says it to Obama~!!

What If ?

 What about It?

What if you were in..?

What about?…

Supposing this happened….?

What if it happened to your child?

What if it happened to you?

What if it happened to a friend?

What if everybody else was doing it??

What if he did it first?? or she did it first?

What if you didnt get caught ??

What if God wasn’t looking…?

What if God ‘didnt care’?

What if God is dead?

What if God didnt answer ?

What if God changed his mind ?

What if man vetoed God?

Will God wink his eye because man made his own law ?

Will God bend his almighty will to the will  of the man who can say what if?

What IF the devil was right?

What if the devil has a better plan ?

What if the bible isnt real ?

What if you can do as you please as long as it is right in your own eyes?

Why serve a God who allows you to be tempted and tried?

Why serve God when you can serve yourself, you surely will not dier?

Why believe in God when you can take over the job yourself?

Why care  that others kill murder steal usurp deceive and even rule over you?

Why care about anyone other than yourself?

Why not charge God with wrong when that fictious child is raped?

Why bother with proof when you have plenty of supposition?

Why listen to the voice of reason when you enjoy your own opinions?

Why consider what Jesus would do when you can be your own Jesus and do what you want?

Why worry about the future as you are the master of your own universe!

Why not hold a form of religion, just deny the power of it !~

Why not do what’s right in your own eyes and back it up with convenient verse and law?

The bible says, that ‘There is a way that seems right to a man but it ends in death.’

‘My ways are not your ways says the Lord…’

‘Try to  learn what is pleasing to the Father…’

‘Choose this day whom you will serve”

“If God be God, serve him, if not serve …”

..in Job, the devil said ,”take away all that he has and he will curse you to your face.”

‘Jesus said the devil was a  liar and murderer from the beginning.’

‘The devil seduced Eve with “What if’s”….He does that to everyone…so that they may find fault with God and then become estranged  from God becoming prey for the devil.’

The devil tempted Jesus in the wilderness and tempts us the same ways as well…but Jesus rebuked the devil to told him to depart…

…to the pure HE[God] shows himself pure….

How do you seek God?

…to the ‘crooked’[those who seek to justify their actions]He[God] shows himself perverse[crooked].

If you *want* to believe that God is unfair, uncaring and not in control of the life you now live or the lives of those women /girls who become pregnant under various circumstances, then you are opting to play God by approving abortion!~ What else will you approve??

Each one is lured and enticed by their own desires…when conceived that desire gives birth to sin… which when full grown brings forth death!!

To compound any sin relating to conception with the choice of abortion is adding sin to sin by all concerned!

Can you elect yourself to be God?

Will he allow it? If He ’stays judgement’ a day longer than demanded is that a weakness or a mercy on his part?

Medical abortions have been done through out time as lives were imperilled such as the fictitious scenarios such as of a child raped who conceived and couldnt birth…such cases have always been allowed to be medically supported and when it comes to choice between mother and child viability, decisions have always been allowed, some which result in medical abortions.

We NEVER  needed the phoney premised Roe v Wade to ensure rights of those medically needing an abortion.

Even the woman who posed before the law representing the Roe v Wade decision REPENTED AND SAID THE LAW SHOULD BE REPEALLED.

ROE V WADE  IS NOT ABOUT WOMEN WHO HAVE BEEN RAPED AND ARE MEDICALLY UNABLE TO CARRY A CHILD TO TERM.

That is the carrot ,bait and justification used by PRO CHOICE brainwashers to perpetuate infanticide of the unborn.

Legal abortion is only legal murder.

The world is sick…the law most likely will never be  overturned..the innocent will keep being murdered.

Condoning it is become a participant of that sin.

It is being a co-conspirator.

When standing before God on Judgement DAy [if you believe in Him], you may be guilty of judgement resulting in hell, for embracing the seductive acceptance of abortions being  a woman’s right under any circumstance.

Most Abortions are performed for petty convenience..to take back a mistake…to correct the results of fornication and adultery.

Pretexted by freeing a woman’s body of the infections of rape and its consequences.

I sheltered a young woman who had an abortion who I befriended for a few years.Due to her ignorance and lack of self control and limited education, she conceived 2 more times and each time held off getting an abortion til she was far enough along  so she was able to use abortion as her chosen form of birth control! She actually had the audacity to go to church the night before having an abortion performed at 14 weeks gestation. She didnt tell us what the medical procedure was for. Later when I was told of what she had done and that it was here 3rd time, I confronted her and she said she didnt want people to think she was a bad person for getting pregnant without being married! What a lame excuse to kill a baby – to kill 3 babies! but Roe v Wade made it possible for her to wait til the last minute and get an abortion each time~

There have not been 40 Million rapes of 5 yr old children over the last 30 years who got pregnant and would have died without Roe v Wade!

 There have been 40 million ‘choices’ of women who have been co-erced into thinking abortion was an alternative to giving birth.

Unfortunately many women who otherwise would not want an abortion have been  manipulated and seduced into getting abortions as well feeling  they had no choice. I know many of these women who still have regrets and nightmares about their abortions and some who have failed to ever conceive again even when they tried.

Our generation has become so self indulgent, self serving and callous towards the rights and needs of others, including the unborn that we allow them to be discarded, murdered in abortion mills.

Many Babies are considered an inconvenience to the guy who likes to play around without protection…so let him just pay for the abortion,right?  That makes it ‘okay’??? It makes him irresponsible for 18 yrs of child support, thats all~

Let the girl who was too drunk to say ‘no’ or remember who it was she was with or how many she was with, just ‘erase the mistake’ by not bringing an ‘unwanted’ child into the world??????  

Adoption is too much of a hassle anyway???

Why feel hurt or remorse for giving a live child away when an abortionist can flush it down the drain and make it go away in minutes???

After all ‘out of sight ‘…. no one else would know and then you can resume your life as usual with no strings attached ??? That lie haunts millions of women today.

Many men have found it convenient way to get them off the hook…

Women too, have found it a convenient way to get themselves off the hook….as they are convinced more and more to not become mothers .

Others have found it a convenient way to not have more kids in the ’system’ for taxpayers to raise….

What if those children had lived?

What if the mother fell in love with her child the moment she held it?

What if that adoptive couple was so thrilled and gave the best education to that otherwise unwanted child who later could have developed the cure for cancer or other diseases?

What if that aborted child had instead been given human rights to save him or her from abortion and protect it til it could have protected itself and allowed the chance to live and grow up to adulthood and prove to society his or her worth in this world we live in…??

What IF God wanted that child to be born, regardless to how it was conceived?

What if God is now only holding back his righteous anger and judgement over all who have been seduced into having or defending abortion as a woman’s right ??

If abortion remains legal, “Why stop at pre-birth? What if the child is ugly or sick?If you could have aborted it a day earlier but now wish you had, why not be allowed to as they do in China?”….

What if your baby cries all the time and annoys you? Why cant you ‘post-natal abort?’[infanticide]

What if you have postpartum depression and smother your screaming infant?? Why is that chargeable murder and abortion not??

God forbid~ both are murder….Abortion is murder…no matter what IF?

If you say or think that God is Lord in your life and still you say you believe and follow Jesus, dont ever link him to condoning abortion.That is sick!

 Jesus died for all those aborted babies since they are , at least for the few moments of their existence ~ part of the world that God so loved! More over they are innocent~!

Back in 1978, I went through an Abortion Clinic to remove a baby that died in my womb but hadnt yet ejected and caused me to bleed for 3 weeks. My doctor said I needed a DNC as I was becoming ’septic’…At the time , had I gone into the hospital for a DNC I would have had to remain in for 3 days and I had no baby sitter for my infant daughter.I was looking for a faster alternative to staying in a hospital overnite.

My cousin told me about a nearby abortion clinic that could to the comparable to getting the DNC in ust one day, as same surgery  and I could be back home that night with my daughter,so I did.

It seemed like the right alternative.

I was wrong! It was a glimpse of hell and judgement when I awoke in recovery alongside 16 other women who had abortions that day.

Hearing the moaning and cries and rants of the other women, made me feel like I was already in hell.

One woman kept cursing out the dead baby’s father…

Another cried that she changed her mind and that she didnt want to do it… but it was too late… we were all in recovery.. the procedures had been already done.

When the anesthesia wore off and I left there, I felt dirty and ashamed. I hadnt aborted a live baby, butfelt like I had.

I swore to God that if I ever needed a DNC again that I would never stoop so low as to go to an abortion clinic again.

I actually felt the spiritual evil that presides over abortion clinics!!

If you support the right to abortion, your very relationship to Jesus is wrong and you are wasting your time calling yourself a Christian, unless you repent of condoning such atrocities and follow Jesus rather than man.

A medically necessary abortion due to the mother’s physical capability to continue with a pregnancy that will kill her has always been dealt with medically, individually with DNC’s and there never was a need for Pro-Choice Roe V Wade legislation.

Back alley abortions [the old fashioned term] were done as a choice and not as medically needed, usually by whores or women who simply didnt want children, not that there were any reason beyond convenience that they could have given birth.

Roe v Wade was said to be supposed to be ending back alley abortions, but instead has committed genocide of the unborn for the last 30 years.

No matter how politically correct it has been ingrained into you or seduced you may be , Abortion is never God’s will and not the answer!

OBAMA MAY BE ALOT OF THINGS TO ALOT OF PEOPLE, MAY BE THE NICEST GUY YOU KNOW, BUT HIS STANCE ON ABORTION MAKE HIM THE WRONG PERSON FOR ANY BIBLE BELIEVING TRUTHFUL CHRISTIAN TO CONSIDER VOTING FOR~ OBAMA VOWED TO PRESERVE ROE V WADE AS WELL AS TO LOBBY FOR LATE TERM ABORTIONS!

DONT VOTE FOR OBAMA~ HE WILL BRING JUDGEMENT ON AMERICA SOONER THAN LATER~

GBU~!

Ave